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Children’s hysteria.
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The child may yell:
- to draw attention to yourself
- to get something from parents (op as a means of pressure)
- just because it’s nice to yell
Life examples
The habit of screaming
My little one has a habit of screaming … He just stands and screams, does not cry, but screams. And so loud it’s ringing in my ears. Can walk, play and just scream. It’s just horrible!!!!!!
Yelling when uncomfortable
For example, you need to dress, or rather just change your blouse — he starts yelling, as if I’m cutting him (dad is nearby), I hold him, he gets out — he relaxes, falls back, squeaks, I insist and silently and quickly change his clothes, everything is done quickly and the child is disguised he immediately falls silent and goes about his business …. dad hears his displeasure and tells me — why am I treating him so harshly ….
Shouting during a tantrum
We don’t fight, we just yell. And neither persuasion helps (the scream gets louder), nor gentle sitting on your knees, nor removal to another room, nor switching, NOTHING. Orem and all. Until I shout in a formidable voice “Yes, stop yelling!” Most disgusting. BUT only a louder yell helps … And what to do with it — I’ll never know. Considering that we have tantrums once every 2 days for any reason, then
Long op
The smart mother of the forum read a lot and decided to bathe the child in a coniferous bath so that he sleeps better. And she immediately fooled such a dark one that she herself would hardly have climbed. At the first attempt to put her there, she began such a hysteria, which had never happened before … The child screamed for 2,5 hours, until he was tired of yelling, even his chest did not help — a tested sedative … The next day, with grief, they swam in half, it was clear that Tanya was very tense about bathing. And today there was no bathing. Because of the great reluctance. Well, I didn’t bring to tears, of course …
The solution
Permission to yell
As the evil Astra says in such cases to her child: “My sun, I see that you want to yell. This is useful, the lungs develop. Let’s scream as much as you want — only loudly, diligently, with all your heart! “And then you and I will figure it out about food, huh?” Yelling into nowhere gets boring very quickly. And drying from yelling — that’s bad luck! — do not appear.
ora holiday
And more about op. But this is when the children are older, 3 years old. We made a «sausage holiday» — each family member is allowed to yell loudly on the mattress, waving his fists, legs and banging his head against the mattress. But then you can say to a child who starts a tantrum, “Wait, sausage day is next week, you remember what you want to yell about, and then you will yell.”