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A common situation: there is a marriage, but the intensity of passions has disappeared from it. How to return healthy, happy, vibrant sex and romantic adventures to family life?
Sexual attraction is a feature that women can turn on or off. This does not always happen according to our desire.
A woman who is in active search develops the ability to broadcast sexuality. It’s not about the abundance of cosmetics, deep necklines and other external manifestations that are designed to attract the opposite sex.
Deep, true sexuality is a very subtle feeling that we are all familiar with. This is a state when enthusiasm and confidence burn inside, your eyes shine, and you feel some kind of “magic” power that attracts the eyes of men.
When a woman is in a relationship, she does not feel the objective need to translate this state right and left. There is a partner, and everything is warm only for him. Therefore, going out into the street, we “turn off” the function of sexuality, communicating with men without a perky twinkle in our eyes, and “turn on” our attractiveness, meeting the eyes of a loved one.
A woman forgets how, when and why to “turn on” this attractive state
What can happen over the years in a relationship? In public, the function of sexuality is turned off, but at home it is not always needed. If we are tired after work, we just want to have dinner and watch a series together — why stir up passions? If there is a child, there may not be time for this function at all.
What is not practiced fades over time. A woman forgets how, when and why to “turn on” this attractive state, and it simply disappears from sight. How can I «enable» this feature again? Here are some simple guidelines.
1. Get enough sleep
When we don’t get enough sleep, there is not enough resource for sexuality. To broadcast female power and attractiveness, this power must objectively exist. Therefore, before you accuse your husband of all serious sins, you need to gain strength, replenish the resource. If there is no time for vacation, you need to arrange at least a «dump» weekend in order to properly recover.
2. Minimize stress
The greatest loss of strength occurs against the background of experiences. How to stop being nervous about little things? Synchronization of the emotional state with hormonal «swings» and lunar cycles, as well as sleep, healthy eating and a well-planned daily routine will help with this.
The more stable we build our lives, the calmer we are and the more forces that can be spent on the development of sexuality.
3. Use the formula «Take off the hat, leave the checker in the corner»
Many work in a stressful environment where you need to show character, toughness, speak clearly and to the point. Unfortunately, we women often forget to “take off our shoulder straps” before coming home, leave the role of leader and return to the state of a loving wife.
Remind yourself every day to leave work at work.
4. Perform an exercise to restore the feeling of sexuality
If the feeling of self-attraction «turns on» not very confidently and not always on demand, do a simple exercise for two weeks. Wind up the clock with the hourly signal. As soon as you hear the signal, ask yourself the question: “How sexy and attractive am I right now?”
Sexuality is not a battle «paint» and not hairpins, it’s an inner feeling
It doesn’t matter where and in what conditions you are. Sexuality is not a war paint or hairpins: it is an inner feeling, and it makes us infinitely beautiful. Feel for it every hour, and in two weeks your sense of body and relationship with your partner will change.
5. Perform the exercise «Scale of sexuality»
On the way home from work, we think about anything: what to cook for dinner, what time to get up tomorrow, what else to do at work … But before entering the apartment, do the exercise. There must be a mirror in the elevator. Look into it and ask the question: “How sexy and attractive am I now?” Let it cause laughter — the more fun you have, the better.
When you get out of the elevator, imagine that there is a scale stretched from it to the door of your apartment, and just “guess” that with each step towards the door you will become even sexier by one division. Taking each new step, you will leave the anxieties of the day behind you and ignite your unique beauty, a sense of attractiveness and sexuality deeper and larger.
You should not expect that the very first attempt will cause a flurry of emotions in a partner: it takes time to restore lost sensations. Regardless of the reaction, it is worth continuing this game every day — and in a week or two you will see the result.