To find love, we must make room in our hearts so that love has somewhere to come. This is exactly what the rituals of the ancient philosophy of Feng Shui set us up to. Prepare a place in your heart and home to let love in.
So, the first thing that feng shui experts advise to do is get rid of the old. After all, if all thoughts are about the past, you are closed to new meetings and feelings. Are you going through a painful breakup or divorce? Change the bed, buy a new – the best – bedding, change the blinds for soft curtains. Choose a new wallpaper. You are worthy of a new love. And a new bedroom!
Choose a double bed, stable, with a headboard. Better on legs. No storage boxes. The Chi energy must circulate freely. We put the bed with the headboard against the wall, not bordering the bathroom or toilet. A bed in a niche is also not the best option. It is important to provide free access to the bed on the right and left. If you put bedside tables, then two. The principle of “pairing” applies to all items in your bedroom. Pillows, lighting – two floor lamps or sconces, and so on. If you need a chair or an armchair in the bedroom, then don’t be limited to one either. Or two, or none. There is no place for lonely objects in the bedroom!
We do not hang shelves, mirrors or clocks over the head of the bed. If you wake up on an alarm clock, put it in your bedside drawer. Laptop and other gadgets – there too!
If you are changing the color or upholstery of the walls, then pay attention to the drawing. Wall murals with pictures of nature or the city are appropriate in an office or living room. But traditional “monograms”, laconic floral motifs and geometric shapes on the walls are quite acceptable. Feng Shui does not contradict macro photography, for example, of stones. What matters is focus, which helps you focus on rest and sleep.
We remove photos where you are alone or even more so with your ex. If you want to decorate the walls with paintings – pay attention to modular ones. The theme of the picture should not be associated with something negative. We are looking for images that are eye-catching and pacifying. For example, images of the moon – it is believed that its energy increases the ability to attract a partner. An aquarium or a cage with birds, dried flowers are also taken away from the bedroom.
But an orchid or a bouquet of peonies in the love sector contributes to happy changes! Traditionally, the sector of love and marriage is located in the southwest direction. Our task is to activate it in order to make new acquaintances. Paired candles are appropriate, especially red or white. The presence of paired symbols of love and fidelity is mandatory: statuettes of mandarin ducks, pigeons or angels. Valentine cards in the form of hearts or light erotic photos in frames with crystals are also suitable.
Feng Shui philosophy does not accept an abundance of decor. Move stuffed animals out of bed. There should not be too many pillows either.
Putting things in order should be a mandatory ritual. Avoid the accumulation of dust, candy wrappers on the bedside tables. Regularly conduct an audit to get rid of unnecessary items in cabinets, bedside tables and on shelves. Repair all broken appliances. If this is not possible, get rid of them. Replace burnt out light bulbs in time. Get rid of cracked dishes, especially if you have a habit of bringing them into your bedroom. Neutralize unpleasant odors. Ventilate the room regularly.
A feng shui bedroom is a place where you will feel relaxed and protected. The Chi energy should feed you while you are resting.
According to the teachings of feng shui, everyone can attract love: all that is needed is faith in a favorable outcome and very little effort!