Caressing breasts (Petting): what women prefer

Particularly erogenous zone, a woman’s breast is just as sensitive. Under these conditions, it is essential for the man to handle his partner’s breasts gently. Otherwise, the caresses of the breasts, rather than leading to orgasm, may prove to be painful to the point of cutting off the woman in her sexual drive.

Tenderness, precaution, gentleness … a watchword: avoid brutality

Touching rather than pinching, massaging rather than kneading and licking rather than biting, the caresses of the breasts do not take place in a context of brutal sex but on the contrary are part of a romantic atmosphere. If some women, at certain times, appreciate bestiality, rare are they to feel sexual arousal when their lover manhandles their breasts.

All the more sensitive, the nipples and areola must be caressed even more gently: the skin in this area is very thin and the slightest abruptness can cause pain. For the same reasons, moreover, it is recommended that men cut their nails well and shave their beards, so as to in no case risk that the woman’s breasts are irritated.

Breasts are sore before menstruation

At certain times of the menstrual cycle, but also during pregnancy and lactation, a woman’s breast swells and becomes painful. There is no point caressing your partner’s breasts during these times.

To stimulate desire and provide pleasure, the man can caress the breasts of his partner in many ways: by blowing on the nipple, by running his fingers over the curve of the breast then by gradually approaching the areola … every time. Tender gestures are good for building up the excitement during foreplay. And to add spice to their sexual routine, lovers can embellish their caresses: an ice cube in hand to make the other shiver with pleasure, by pouring a previously warmed liquid on the chest and belly to warm the atmosphere … Au couple to imagine new ways of leading to pleasure by caressing the breasts, while respecting this sensitive feminine area.

Breasts, as a rule, fascinate men sometimes to the point of erecting them in fantasies. This is why beyond the caresses of the breasts, the lovers redouble their imagination to exploit this area of ​​the female body in order to feel pleasure.

Licking breasts and sucking nipples, source of pleasure?

Among the many ways to caress the breasts, using your tongue is widely preferred as licking is a pledge of softness and subtlety – however, be careful not to indulge the bite. And for immediate sexual pleasure, the lover can try his hand at sucking: by sucking his partner’s nipple, he causes intense excitement and sometimes even a form of enjoyment.

Masturbation between a woman’s breasts, a controversial practice

It appears under the name of “notary’s tie” in the Kamasutra, mazophallation consists for the man to masturbate between the breasts of his partner. Easier to test if the woman has a generous breast, this uncommon position satisfies men more than women who assimilate it to a pornographic practice.

Caresses the breasts: guaranteed female pleasure?

Not all women are sensitive to the touching of the breasts. In case of complex or quite simply when the breast is not an erogenous zone, the woman does not feel pleasure to see the man caressing her breasts. Most men, on the other hand, enjoy tickling this part of the body.

3 main rules (almost laws) during breast play

1. Always be on the surface

Remember, inside the breast is the mammary gland (surprise), consisting of 15-20 separate cone-shaped lobes, between which is fat (it is he who is responsible for the size of this seductive part of the body). The lobes themselves are firm and their contraction can be very painful.

The female breast is full of nerve endings, but they are all on the surface – on the nipples, areola (circumferences around the nipples) and skin.

Do not “knead” the chest too hard and deep – focus on its surface.

2. Be careful before and during your period

It will be useful for you to know that the sensitivity of the breast changes several times during the month. The closer to the days of menstruation, the more it is susceptible to touch, often swells and becomes larger. Sometimes the sensitivity of the breast is increased so much that any contact with it can cause discomfort to the girl, and this is normal.

Of course, this does not mean that you will not have sex now, ask your girlfriend, maybe she really wants it, just be careful with her breasts these days.

3. Don’t be afraid to talk and ask questions

Ask your partner during foreplay and sex if she is comfortable. If it’s okay, keep doing what you’re doing. Remember to also ask during the process if she likes something if you are trying new tricks and movements.

You can also talk about it in advance, in order to find out her preferences. If you think that such a conversation will kill all the intrigue, you are mistaken. It will only kindle sexual fantasies in each of you and excite.

If we were you, we would not neglect this opportunity, since all girls have radically different preferences, and you will see this in the last paragraph of this material.

5 most popular mistakes during the caresses of the female breast

1. Don’t tin

Most likely, porn movies taught you to squeeze your nipples hard and bite your breasts in a fit of passion (women in the video really like this).

Yes, indeed, there are girls who like hard action. But there are those who are repulsed by your behavior and will not bring pleasure.

If you used the previous paragraph and learned about the preferences of your sexual partner in advance, the question is removed. If not, try gradually increasing the degree of rudeness. Start with light stimulation and increase pressure over time, while asking the girl if she likes it.

2. Don’t think

We already mentioned at the very beginning that all nerve endings are on the surface of the skin of the mammary glands, and not inside. But still, this is worth emphasizing, because this is really one of the most common mistakes.

Few men refrain from squeezing a juicy female breast. In the meantime, don’t do this!

The skin around the chest, as well as the nipples and their circumference, can be gently touched, stroked, kissed, bitten, sucked, pinched, licked, squeezed with your fingers.

You can gently squeeze the chest with your palm, but not sharply. In any case, it’s not worth “kneading” the breasts as it is shown in adult films, with a high degree of probability this will cause the girl only pain and discomfort.

3. Take your time to undress

We have already told you how to act in order to excite a girl to the limit and turn yourself on like never before. This item is also very suitable.

Don’t rush to take off her bra or even clothes. The chest is sensitive enough to be touched through clothing. Start touching her while she’s still wearing some clothes and you’ll feel her nipples tighten.

When you slowly undress your partner, do not take off your underwear, but just lower it. This will spice up the foreplay and turn you both on. By the way, when unbuttoning a shirt or blouse, remember the upper chest, touch it before you completely take off your clothes.

4. Don’t Grab Your Chest Right Away

Especially if this is your first time. Build up arousal, even if it seems that it is already at its maximum. Remember that a girl needs a little more time to fire up, and rushing will only ruin everything.

Try to tease yourself, in much the same way as in the previous paragraph. Yes, you want to see her breasts as soon as possible – but be patient, slow undressing with deliberate delays will only add heat. Yes, now you want to touch her as soon as possible, but take your time, slow down, you can touch her, but do not immediately touch the nipples.

If a girl gets very excited, she will be able to take the initiative, which, believe me, you will like it even more.

5. When playing with one, do not forget about the second later

Do not forget that if you have interacted with one breast, having spent some time on it, you definitely need to repeat it with the second so that the girl does not have a feeling of incompleteness.

Alternatively, when caressing one breast with your mouth, you can use your free hand to imitate the same movements on the second.

How to caress a girl’s breasts: 5 top tips

1. Pay attention to unexpected parts of the chest

The nipples often attract the main attention, and the rest of the breast is not involved in any way. This is unfair, since the entire surface of the breast is very sensitive (sometimes even more than the nipples themselves).

Give a light touch to her tender areola (the area around the nipple), kiss her under her breasts and explore the crease under her with your fingers.

Try kissing her breasts on the sides. Rise a little higher, to the collarbones. Pay attention to the area around the armpits, and at the same time to themselves. If a girl is not afraid of tickling, she will like it – this is a strong erogenous zone.

2. Use available tools

It is advisable to discuss this point with your girlfriend in advance. But if you experiment without asking, do not forget to ask all the time if everything is fine.

Try playing with a piece of ice from a glass. Run it over her lips, chin, neck, then move on to her breasts and nipples. You can lick the melted drops of water.

Fur tassels (preferably artificial) are also suitable, with which you can slowly drive over the body and chest, drawing various patterns. Light touches will give the girl incredible pleasure.

If you don’t have a brush or ice at home, try to take something from your wardrobe. The touch of a silk tie or scarf can also bring unexpected sensations and pleasure.

3. Try it in the bath or shower

We have already talked about the specifics of sex in the shower and the advice of girls in this regard.

And although this is not the most comfortable way of intimate interaction, it is quite acceptable as one of the elements of the game.

You will need shower gel or ordinary soap, the main thing is that your hands slide over your body, this will give both of you new sensations. In general, a shower is not necessary, you can use massage oil. The effect will be even better.

4. Use toys

Don’t forget about sex toys. You can stimulate a girl’s breasts with vibrators or simple glass devices that can be preheated in hot water or cooled in the refrigerator.

If a girl likes it harder, you can buy special nipple clamps in a sex shop. This will definitely bring new emotions and sensations to your sex.

5. Always ask before biting

Start biting very gently and gently. Make sure your partner likes it, ask her if everything is all right, taking a little break from business.

If all is well, go ahead and increase the pressure slightly. Ask the girl to say “stop” if she gets hurt or uncomfortable. This can be a very exciting process, after which you will know how much it is already too strong for her.

But biting without asking and warning is immediately NO.

Bonus: 4 Absolutely Unique Tips on How to Caress Women’s Breasts

1. Tease her, DO NOT touch her nipples and circumference

You can stroke and lick your partner’s breasts, but deliberately avoid the nipple and its circumference.

This will create a delightfully disappointing effect, so to speak. The effect of strong sexual tension, when the girl will literally dream of direct stimulation of her nipples. If she moans, then she definitely wants you to touch her nipples as soon as possible.

However, it may be that your partner will not care, because she does not crave contact with the nipples. In this case, touching the rest of the chest is fine in itself, keep going!

2. Imagine that the nipple is her clitoris

Often (though not always) during foreplay there is a mental parallel between the nipple and the clitoris, which, you see, adds fire.

Try to imagine that her nipple is a clitoris. By the way, we recently told seven amazing facts about this part of the body that everyone needs to know in order to give its owner maximum pleasure and bring her to orgasm.

So, practice first on the nipple. Rub it with your tongue, suck it, circle it around, try different rhythmic movements. If things go further, you can try the same tricks “over there”.

3. Lick and blow

Try moistening the nipple with saliva by licking and sucking on it, and then gently blow on it. An unexpected feeling of cold can provoke a pleasant tingling sensation.

4. Ask her to touch her breasts herself

Somewhere in the middle of sexual intercourse, you can ask your partner to touch your breasts. This request will turn her on, and what you will see will turn you on.

In addition, your friend will caress herself exactly the way she likes herself, so you can remember these movements for the future.