Alina cannot leave her mother

Today I propose to think about a difficult situation, which is reflected in the correspondence with a girl, or rather, a completely adult woman — Alina. She has a problem with her mother. I don’t know what Alina’s daughter is, I don’t know what kind of person her mother is, and I don’t have any facts to seriously judge their relationship. Internet consultations are an extremely controversial thing … However, this fragment from the correspondence is interesting: track how firmly Alina places herself in the position of the Victim: she cannot do anything herself, it all depends on her mother (external circumstance) and internal circumstances (pressure on Alina feelings of guilt and Alina’s lack of spirit, self-confidence, mental strength). Stand in the position of the Author, turn on your head and do what you need to do — no, this is not Alina’s intentions … Complaining and suffering is easier. So,

Alina