Sextoy for women: which one to choose according to your desires?

Sextoy for women: which one to choose according to your desires?

The catalog of female sex toys is very extensive. It is very difficult to navigate. They are intended for solitary pleasures or couples. Some are intended to amplify the vaginal orgasm, others are specifically “clitoral” finally, it is possible to stimulate both at the same time, if we stick to the two main ones. In addition, care should be taken with overpowered sex toys not indicated for sensitive women. 

“Gaude mihi”: make me happy

The word “dildo” comes from the Latin “gaude mihi” which means rejoice me. Its little name is the dildo. The Greeks called it “olisbos”. The joystick is another synonym. The perfection of its manufacture and its globalization have led to the word “sex-toy” that is to say “sex toy”.

The first prehistoric phallic sculptures, found around 12 BC, were dedicated to encouraging the fertility of ladies and fields.

But the aforementioned ladies are not only fertile, they feel sexual pleasure and more than the men (according to Tiresias) and these, as well the Greeks as the Romans thus decide to consign them at home to control them, even if it means them. encourage onanism.

It is still to a Greek that we owe the secret of the craftsmen of Miletus, the city of origin of dildos made with the same leather as sandals, stuffed with animal hair, fabrics and dry grass, coated with vegetable oil. Indeed, Aristophanes evokes the subject in his play Lysistrata (XNUMXth century BC): the sex strike of Greek women deprived of dildos due to the closure of the factories in Miletus.

The Middle Ages lend therapeutic and anti-adultery virtues to masturbation: using vegetables or wooden objects.

From the fifteenth century, the dildo belonged to the luxury industry and the seventeenth and eighteenth century promises according to the desires of magnificent objects whose manufacture is entrusted to cabinetmakers, goldsmiths (ivory is in the foreground), glassmakers ( Murano in Italy) and publicity assured by literature.

The sexo-industrial revolution of the XNUMXth century

Who would have predicted it? Electricity revolutionizes the joystick. The legendary ancestor of the vibrator is the papyrus roll filled with bees used by Cleopatra.

But since then, the English have electrified the dildo (just after the kettle for tea – priority obliges -) and it is in 1905 that in France, it is marketed. It is associated with pornography until Sonia Rykiel’s vibrating duck. Goodbye glassware and ivory. Hello silicone and plastic. The handle or stick is equipped with an external head which stimulates the clitoral glans and by indirectly stimulating the vulva, it sets in motion if we can say the walls of the clitoris.

After the ducks, the rabbits. The Rabbits and their confreres are far behind their headless counterparts.

For more clitoral desires

The vibrating rollers stimulate the glans and the wings of the clitoris through contact with the lips and the outside of the vagina.

The vibrating eggs exist with clitoral attachment.

The most powerful is undoubtedly the Magic Wand, used in physiotherapy to loosen muscles; it causes extremely intense vibrations and is therefore reserved for women with little sensitivity to the vulva.

But the revolution came from Womanizer (womanizer): this is a suction stimulator (“air pleasure” technique), an ingenious system of micro-aspirations. The Lelo range offers the simple Sona and the Sona Cruise which combine suction and vibration. The Womanizer without vibration remains the reference, which offers 12 different intensities.

More or more

The number of sex toys providing double stimulation is impressive. They may or may not be wireless, connected to the smartphone, triggered or not by the partner, with or without wires. The Internet offer makes it possible to navigate with the added bonus of the price of the devices and the delivery time.

The “anal plug” is a spice of sexual intercourse. “Plug” in English means plug but also outlet. Most often, it is a hot pepper during intercourse but the anus is obviously an obvious erogenous zone but not spontaneously lubricated (beware of damage). In addition, the “anal plug” introduced into the woman’s anus will be felt by the man as a very stimulating penile pressure.

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