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Show it off!
All men are very visual and your darling is bound to be hypersensitive to what he sees during foreplay and intercourse. Enhance your curves to feel beautiful and fully assume your curves and small imperfections – that’s what makes your charm ! Do not turn off the light because of any complexes, on the contrary, take pleasure in being contemplated. Look after the lights, dim the lights or light candles, more flattering. And give him your intense gaze that tells him how much you want him. Message received every time !
Work on your gestures
Think about your body language and what it gives off. Why don’t you get in on the dance? You will thus develop your self-confidence and your sensuality. You can opt for a small private stripping session by undressing very gently, without him touching you ! You can also dance languidly with your man, to combine sight and touch… It’s up to you to choose your register.
Massage yourself into the feeling …
Touch is a particularly erotic sense. Reconnect with your skin and his by massaging you without prejudice, as you feel it. The skin is our first means of communication, our first sensory sensor and your massage will send messages of well-being to your brain. Use body milks or scented oils that you warm in the palm of your hands to avoid an unpleasant feeling of cold. Vary the pressure, slow down all your movements, take the time to savor your feelings, the warmth, the softness, the beauty of all parts of your body and hers.
“I put a scarf over his eyes. It’s very exciting. »Flora
“The first time I had the idea to put a blindfold over Mathieu’s eyes, it was because I told him how much I loved playing blindfold with my cousins. Suddenly, it clicked, I put a scarf over his eyes. I wanted to surprise him and it worked! Since he couldn’t see me, it freed me. He loved it and we perfected the game. Once we can’t see anything, we are waiting, we wonder where, how, when the other is going to touch us. It’s very exciting. And when it gets clearer, it’s delicious! “
Touch … with your fingertips!
To make you shiver with desire, be creative and start with delicate caresses that are not directly sexual. Of simple touches fingertips all over the body are a great start. Go through the arms, neck, shoulders, legs, face, every square inch to raise the excitement. Focus on the contact and the emotions it triggers. Vary the sensations by using soft textures, fur gloves, silk fabrics, feathers… To multiply the sensations, why not blindfold both of you. ? And consider doing a scrub and having hydrated skin, even more receptive to caresses.
Bet on perfumes and scents
Our favorite smells are very addictive, so it is essential to surround yourself with sweet scents and enrich your olfactory palette. You can choose a room fragrance reserved for erotic lovemaking and always use the same one so that it is associated with moments of pleasure. The simple fact of inhaling this perfume will bring back the strong emotions that go with it from the past. You can burn incense or a scented candle, perfume your sheets and your linen with jasmine, coat your body with a cream with sensual scents. You can opt for essential oils whose heady fragrances you like : rose, vanilla, orange or even monoi, for its holiday scent … Enhance the scent of your skin with an eau de toilette – sparingly – because the natural body odor and the pheromones that each emit has immense erotic power. Especially on women because smell is the sense that most influences their arousal.
Take baths for two
Many everyday acts can become special moments for people. sensory perceptions. For example, transform the moment of the shower or the bath into a real festival of sensuality. Relax, unwind, listen to each other, coat yourself with scented bath gel, foam, soap yourself in duo, from the soles of the feet to the roots of the hair, run the water on your body, on his, hot, cold, strong, in light rain …
Daddy’s eye
“I love that Magalie takes care of me. »Vincent
“Sensuality, sensitivity, the need to be cuddled, touched, pampered, caressed, titillated is not the prerogative of women. Me, I love it when my wife hugs me, tells me that she finds me beautiful and sexy. I like it when she compliments me on the shape of my muscles, the softness of my skin, my smell. I love that she runs her hand through my hair, that she digs her nails into my scalp, that she nestles in the crook of my neck, that she caresses my back, my thighs with her hair… So do we. , men, we are great sensuals ! »
Whet your appetite …
Nothing like delicate dishes, a few sweets and delicacies to be enjoyed as a couple to stir up all kinds of cravings. Prepare (together?) For example a dinner to taste entirely with your fingers : small canapes, mini-skewers, crunchy vegetables, pieces of fruit, macaroons… Peck and give each other a bite. By drinking bubbles, it’s even more fun.
Taste your partner
Learn to appreciate the skin taste of your partner, of his lips, of his whole body by going through it with his lips and tongue. Vary the flavors by covering parts of her body with whipped cream or chocolate according to your preferences. Then enjoy your darling. You can give free rein to your artistic sense by drawing pretty shapes on her skin.
Express yourself, whisper, whisper …
Hearing is a sense that should not be neglected. Showing your desire, making your lover hear his pleasure is an effective way to raise the temperature. Whispers, gasps, deep breaths, moans, sighs, cries … let go ! Listen to the other’s voice and savor the way it resonates with you. Some naughty whispered words or whispered compliments like “ You are beautiful, I love your body, I want you ! You make me high ! “The most daring can embark on a more raw style, even downright sex …
“The skin is our first sensory sensor. Vary the pressure. Slow down all your movements. “
Send the music!
A music that comes pleasantly tickle your ears brings an undeniable plus. Prepare a playlist that matches your musical tastes. Romantic piano notes, a bewitching soul melody, the voice of your favorite crooner, the holiday techno hit, the sound of the waves on the shore… Everything is possible ! And if you had sex for the first time on a particular track, put the CD back. The first chords of this music will act as a signal.