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Have you seen an attractive girl, but are you afraid that she will refuse to meet you? In vain. If you follow certain rules, then acquaintance with any free beauty will be doomed to success. How to meet girls the right way – we were told by a professional seduction trainer, author of the Pickup Encyclopedia Andrey Oleinik.
Tip 1. Remember: they are greeted by clothes
The first thing a girl sees is, of course, your appearance. You don’t have to be Apollo. But be sure to be well-groomed and tidy.
Tip 2. Pick a nice place to meet
The place of the first meeting is an important part of the impression about you. Therefore, you should not approach girls in doorways or dirty underground passages. The probability of a successful acquaintance is much higher on pretty streets, near elegant shop windows, in cozy cafes and green parks.
Tip 3. Draw the girl into the dialogue with a question
It’s best to start with a question. This allows you to immediately draw the girl into the dialogue. Moreover, we are all used to questions from strangers and are not afraid when we hear them. For example, everyone is often asked how to get somewhere, where to find the right institution, etc. But still it is better that the question was original. Recall the classics and the question “Where is the nofelet?” *. What was good about him: he attracted attention, the girls became interested, while they sincerely wanted to help! You can also ask a question in any foreign language. For example, ask a question in Italian. When the girl is surprised, tell her that she seemed Italian to you thanks to her luxurious dark hair.
IMPORTANT!
In no case do not ask a girl the question: “Can I meet you?” He shifts the responsibility for dating from a man to a woman. And not a single representative of the weaker sex needs this. When girls list what qualities they want to see in men, they always (!) put responsibility in the first places.
“Where is the nofelet?” – Soviet comedy. The main characters asked this question to the girls to get to know each other. “Nophelet” is the reversed word for “telephone”.
Tip 4. The main thing is to be confident
If you are not confident in yourself, then none of the above tips will work. This is the minimum that everyone who counts on a successful acquaintance should have. You must be sure that you need this acquaintance, that you like this particular girl. And this confidence should be shown in every word and even gesture – you can’t close your hands, hide your eyes, pull your nose … Also, you absolutely can’t mumble, be embarrassed to ask questions, hesitate.
By the way, if the girl agreed to an acquaintance, you need to make her a first date as soon as possible. As the saying goes, strike while the iron is hot! Because right now, a new acquaintance feels sympathy or interest in you, and a little later she may begin to doubt.
We wish you all pleasant acquaintances!