Lovers as on the first day, couples who maintain a fulfilling sexuality years after their meeting amaze and stand out. How to preserve desire over time? What are the intimate secrets of the lasting couple? Advice and tips for making love without getting bored …

If the secret of a lasting couple does not lie only in the frequency of sexual intercourse and the intensity of the passion, the couple who do not make love necessarily face relational obstacles that are difficult to overcome, and sometimes fatal. Banking on sexuality as an ingredient of longevity is inevitable, but how do you get there?

Cement of the couple, sexuality changes over time: passion withers, weariness sets in and everyday life takes over after a few years of living together. Yet in some couples, desire seems to resist the passing of time. A game of looks, furtive caresses, a few naughty words: the excitement is such as in the first days of the relationship. How do these couples who remain lovers do?

Break the routine for great sex

To maintain or revive desire, the couple reinvents themselves day after day. Erotic games, new sexual positions, unusual places and libertine practices: in the quest for tireless sexuality, all the novelties are good to try. Vary the pleasures to rediscover each other and become lovers again: the initiative initiated by the man or the woman is likely to surprise the partner and benefit the couple.

Stay tuned to your lover

These couples who remain in love confirm it: there is nothing more important than listening and communication. To make love regularly, the man and the woman must arouse the envy of their partner, by stimulating the other according to his own needs. While some men can get turned on by rough sex, others will prefer a dose of romance. We observe that the desire of women is stimulated more by the auditory while the man functions visually. But every couple is different, and it’s up to the partner to be attentive to each other’s specific needs.

Promote a romantic climate in the couple

Taking care of yourself, seeking the pleasure of others, complimenting, seducing and preserving moments of intimacy: the recipe for lasting sexuality is also based on a favorable love climate. Lovers have every interest in placing their couple at the top of their priorities, to continue to be available… and desirable.

Staying lovers during pregnancy

Throughout life as a couple, many events upset the balance and weaken sexual desire, and among them the arrival of a child. How to continue to have sex while pregnant? Some women have an inordinate sexual appetite during their pregnancy, others on the contrary feel weighed down by their pounds, and tired. It is up to the man to promote the act by taking the controls… But some men see their partner’s pregnancy as a psychological brake on their desire. This may be the time for the woman to suggest positions in which her partner does not have her stomach in the foreground. The couple can also try other ways than vaginal penetration or concentrate on foreplay: fellatio, masturbation, anal sex… The couple’s sexuality can be endlessly reinvented.

Reconciling sexuality and children

With the arrival of children, lovers become parents. And this new status often has a psychological impact: the woman sees her partner as the father of her child, and sexuality suffers. To cope, a few tips are enough: book an evening or a weekend without children on a regular basis, make love outside the family home and above all, admire the other in his role of parent to desire him. ‘so much more.

How often do you have sex to be average? This question, many men and women ask. The frequency – admitted – of sexual intercourse by French couples is between 2 and 3 times a week. But this average is not necessarily very reliable and takes into account important differences. Without going to extremes, regardless of the frequency of the sexual act: the couple who make love out of obligation will probably not shine by their longevity, while lovers who adapt their sexuality to their desire are more likely to blossom. As long as you stimulate this desire day after day …