Libertinism is a sexual practice that is based on the notion of freedom and trust. It allows, within a couple, to have sex with other partners, without questioning feelings. What is being a libertine and how to put it in place in your relationship?

The term “libertine” describes a person who lives in a libertine way, without respecting the morals in force in society. Today, the meaning refers more to a way of life within the couple which consists in indulging in the pleasures of the flesh with an assumed freedom, and which calls into question the notion of monogamy.

Indeed, the libertine allows himself to have sex with people other than the one with whom he is in a relationship. This practice concerns both men and women, of all ages and profiles.

Libertinism is different from infidelity, since here the sexual relations outside the couple are known by the other partner. Libertine couples consider these adventures as agreed and synonymous with sexual pleasure and fulfillment, without endangering their couple. 

In a libertine couple, the notion of fidelity is considered in a different way than in monogamous couples. When we offer this practice to our partner, it is not a matter of telling them that we no longer want it, but on the contrary that we have enough confidence in our relationship and in their feelings to be able to offer them new ones. experiences.

Thus, libertinism imposes a strong loyalty: the person with whom we are in a relationship does not change, and we remain faithful to this couple. The libertine couples dissociate the sex of the feelings, and consider that the sexual relations outside their couple are only a fun, a carnal pleasure that the partners grant each other. However, their relationship remains essential and it is within it that love and passion are exerted.

Libertinism is a practice that must be wanted by both partners. It is a particular mode of operation within the couple, which must be carefully considered before being established. If you want to experience it with your partner, start by telling them why you want to experience this stuff with other people. Establish a dialogue and see if your partner is interested or not.

Libertinism can be practiced in different places. There are for example clubs or bars which are especially in this practice, where one can meet other libertine couples. This type of establishment is generally selective, and you must be a member to access it. You can definitely go there without participating just to watch, and see if this practice is right for you.

There are also applications and websites that put libertine couples in touch with each other. Finally, do not forget to protect yourself when having sex with people whose situation you do not know regarding screening. 

Libertinism, since it openly allows partners to date other people, can be a way to end some jealousy. Indeed, the libertine couple obeys rules, and trust is essential. Partners tell each other everything about their sexual experiences, there is no taboo or secret. Thus, it puts an end to the tensions and fits of jealousy that would make fantasize about any extra-marital relationship: here, everything is said in broad daylight.

However, libertinism is not within everyone’s reach. Some people will not stand knowing that their partner can have sex with another person. In this case, jealousy would on the contrary be exacerbated because of this new functioning. 

Swinging is a sexual practice which is similar to libertinism and which is practiced between two couples, regardless of their sexual orientation. The goal is to “exchange” the partners of a couple with the other, the time of a sexual relationship. These can take place in the same room, in which case the lovers can see each other: this is called voyeurism. Swinging allows you to experience new sensations and to integrate novelty into the sexuality of your couple.

This practice, like debauchery, requires absolute confidence in your couple and in your partner. It also requires being comfortable with the other couple, so that there is no discomfort during sex. The partners must all give their full consent, and the watchword is freedom: the idea is to have fun and to know that his or her partner is enjoying it too.