All that can be solved are tasks!

I have had many problems all my life. To be more precise, the very word «problem» was used in our family very often. These were quite different problems, often very serious and important. Then the bread runs out, then the light bulb burns out, then the pants are torn, then dad’s car breaks down … It was a difficult childhood, a lot of problems …

When I met my future husband, very often my conversation with him began with the phrase «I have a problem.» And again, these were very serious problems. An acute shortage of ice cream in the body, a lack of vitamin D, it is necessary to go to hot countries, the beloved man has not hugged for half an hour, the car did not start, overslept for work … In general, everything is very serious. After a while, my husband began to notice that I had only problems. And it was from my husband that I first heard the phrase “This is not a problem, this is a task.” I really liked this phrase, I began to use it often in my speech. My tasks have become former problems that can be quickly and easily solved. And the problems that require experiences and nerves remained. There was also a habit of complaining about a problem when you need to ask for something.