On January 12, the TNT channel will start a new season of the series “SASHATANYA”, in which the young family of the Sergeevs continues to raise their little son. And Valentina Rubtsova, the performer of the role of Tanya, is raising her daughter Sophia in real life. On December 1, the girl turned three years old. Woman’s Day passed questions from Chelyabinsk mothers to the TNT star.
Maria Chernyshova, 29 years old, son of Fedechka, 1 year old:
Today, parents often post photos of their children on social networks and even put them on their avatars. Do you think this is correct? Photos of children are seen not only by friends, but also by strangers.
“I am categorically against this. This does not mean that it is unpleasant for me to look at photographs of other people’s children on social networks. You just can’t upload photos without the consent of the child, you have to wait until he is old enough to make his own decisions. The child may not need someone else’s attention. He must have personal space. Think about how your children will react to these photos when they grow up? Even then, when I was pregnant, my husband and I agreed that there would be no photo sessions and filming of the child for the press. We still receive many offers from magazines. In the end, we nevertheless agreed to the latter, since my daughter is already quite old. “
How do you deal with the whims of a child?
“Raising a child is, first of all, raising oneself. Children absorb everything they see, and parents are an example for them. Therefore, you need to be restrained, behave with dignity. If a child is naughty, screams – there is always a reason for this. You need to calmly and balancedly explain why you cannot fulfill his request. He does not understand – he will have to repeat it, two times, five, forty-five times. Children remember well, and all your words are written down in the subcortex. If you succumbed to children’s tears, you lost. I have Sophia – that still little manipulator, and her upbringing for me is a huge work on myself ”.
Victoria Kolesnikova, 33 years old, raising her son Stas, a year and a half:
Does your mother’s experience on the TNT set, where you work with your heroine’s son, help you? Do you sometimes have to shout at him, hit him on the forehead?
“Shouting at a child is unacceptable for me. All the more so to beat. Children are small adults and should be treated with respect. Any child can be negotiated. However, Artem Shirokov, who plays the son of Sasha and Tanya, is a unique artist for his age. He knows the words “camera”, “Motor!”, “Stop, filmed!”, Understands and does everything that is required of him. ”
Does the comedian’s sense of humor help in raising Sophia?
“First of all, I instill in my daughter a sense of humor. It will teach her not to take herself too seriously. Life is a hard thing, it will have to face difficulties, and a person who knows how to laugh at himself is ready for anything and goes through life easily. I teach her jokes. Recently he comes running: “Grandpa told a joke! The elephant smeared himself with flour, stood in front of the mirror and said: “Wow, a dumpling!” – and she laughs, pours out. “
Did you and your husband go through a crisis in relationships when a daughter appeared? How did you overcome it?
“It so happened that I met my husband Artur Martirosyan at a mature age. I think it was love at first sight. I immediately thought: “I want this person to become the father of my children!” And I didn’t regret it for a second afterwards. Sometimes I think: “Where have I been before? Why didn’t you start a family? ” Then I stop – before, then it was not the time. Recently, on the anniversary of my marriage, my husband gave me a Cartier watch ”.
Anna Smirnova, 27 years old, is raising her daughter Zlata, a year and three months:
Are there any special traditions and customs in your family?
“Now we all live together: grandmother, grandfather, brother, my husband and daughter. Therefore, we did not send Sophia to the kindergarten and do not use the services of a nanny – there is someone to look after her. I am happy that we live this way – a big friendly family. We do not have any special traditions, but we have a conviction: there should be a holiday every day, there is no need to tie joy to a certain date. I wanted to give a gift – I gave it. You need to rejoice every day. “
Who would you like Sophia to become when she grows up? Will you try to influence her choice?
“There is no need to try to impose on the child who he wants to be. A child is not obliged to become someone at all, the main thing is that he be happy and healthy. “
How and where will you celebrate the New Year?
“We will celebrate the New Year in Sochi, my husband’s homeland. Let’s take my dad with us – he will help to look after our daughter. Every New Year I burn a piece of paper with a wish, dip the ashes in champagne and drink to the chimes to make my wish come true. I hope to have time to carry out the ritual this year, while the clock strikes. “
Watch “SASHATANYA” from January 12 from Monday to Thursday on TNT!