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Erotic massage, instructions for use
Erotic massage is one of the most common foreplay. They promote an atmosphere of romanticism, while allowing to stimulate the erogenous zones of the partner. No need to be an expert in the matter, the initiative of the sensual massage in itself can be enough to raise the excitement. Gentle caresses on and with the different parts of the lovers’ body or pressed pressure, the person being massaged guides the other to increase the pleasure.
The keys to an exciting couples massage
The erotic massage can begin while the partners are still dressed. One takes the initiative for the act, and continues on a favorable response from the other. All techniques are allowed, as long as the desire rises in the 2 members of the couple. For example :
- For a successful introduction, erotic massage can at first glance be accompanied by sweet or naughty words whispered in the ear of the lover. In doing so, the masseur can use his tongue to stimulate the erogenous zone of the earlobe.
- The hands gradually descend towards the torso of the person being massaged, this is the opportunity to start stripping. To touch or to press, the pressure to be exerted depends on the engines of the sexual arousal of the partner. At the level of the chest, a pause can be observed the time to stimulate the nipples. Kisses can be added to the sensual massage.
- To lead to the ultimate arousal, the lover moves his hands down to the most erogenous zone of his partner’s body: the man’s penis or the woman’s clitoris. Over the clothes and then naked, the sexual organ is gently massaged.
Couples massage makes it possible to increase desire in both men and women, both for the person being caressed and for the one who offers his caresses. The lovers thus stimulate lubrication: once these preliminaries are completed, the couple is in a good position to make love.
Tips for a successful erotic massage
Sensual massage serves romance. It is useful in these conditions to promote an atmosphere that is all the more romantic. For this, a few tips can help:
Put on soft relaxing music, dim the lights
An erotic massage is all the more exciting when the context is suitable. Turning off the telephones, turning off the television and turning up the heaters are also part of the scene.
Wearing sexy underwear
If the preliminaries can begin while the lovers are dressed, the moment when everyone gets naked is not long in coming. At this time, it is wise to reveal adornments if not naughty, at least presentable. This promotes the rise of sexual desire, but also self-confidence and the desire to go further.
Discover all parts of the body
The one who does the erotic massage uses his hands, but can also reinvent the technique by using other parts of the body: his hair, his nails, his feet, his tongue or his chest. Carnal contact is the essential element of the act. On the side of the massaged partner, it is possible to linger on all erogenous zones or not: it is the moment to give free rein to the imagination and to experience new forms of pleasure.
Using massage oil
Massage oil is one of the ingredients for the success of erotic massage. It has lubricating qualities which are essential to ensure the comfort of partners. Massage oil can also offer other characteristics: heating or cooling oil, tingling oil… the objective is to blow out hot and cold and to provide pleasant sensations, novel or not.
A couple’s massage in turn
Once one has been massaged, and if the lovers can still wait before making love, it can be appreciable for the other to benefit from the same treatment.
Listen to each other
In order not to make the erotic massage unpleasant, it is important to know how to touch your partner. This is why the latter can guide his lover towards the best path of pleasure, while avoiding all gestures that would be painful to him. Staying tuned also allows to know the level of excitement of each one: it is good to stop the erotic massage before the ejaculation of the man, failing which the sexual intercourse – including penetration – cannot take place.