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Problem:
Find specific markers (actions, deeds or things) that help to switch from the role of «Child» to the role of «Adult»:
What to do:
1. Facial expressions, gestures and speech
- Mimicry and facial expressions are less «capricious», eyes are slightly more closed, lips are somewhat more relaxed
- Gestures are graceful rather than emotional.
- Remove from the speech the word — the parasite «here».
- To lower the voice — to make it lower and slower.
2. Image
- Brown and generally dark shades in clothing and hair color.
- Food in the state of an adult is not to rejoice at the appearance of something tasty, but to eat “like at the highest reception” gracefully and with dignity.
- Games with more focus on a partner than on your own enjoyment of the game.
3. Position of the body in space
- Approach a person from afar, maintain a distance. This adds gravity and allows you to look at a person not from the bottom up, but as if from afar.
- Walk with a man not by the hand, but by the arm.
Results:
- The state of «Adult» in my performance was characterized by greater composure, but less energy.
- Men began to play with me less, but to look after me more.
Those. before, I could kick around standing next to each other, look at each other, play smiles, etc. and now they brought me all sorts of sweets, brought me a chair and generally prepared a place for me and in general, in every possible way took me for a woman.
PS: And after the training, already at home, Antoshka noticed that when I am busy doing something on my own, I automatically turn into an adult state. And you don’t have to do anything special.