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Get in condition
Planning to make love, preparing for it by thinking about it each on his own, talking about it together, sending each other texts filled with sensual promises allows the subconscious to put itself in condition. Make it a habit to make a date each time you plan to have sex with your sweetheart. Tell her everything you plan to do to her after dinner, in the shower, on the couch… The wait raises her desire and yours. Anything that stimulates erotic reverie is recommended. If you lack inspiration, do not hesitate to send strong extracts from erotic literature novels that you like by changing the first names: the heroes are you and him!
Forget the rest of the world
It’s like everything, you have to be focused! Be fully present at all times, listen to your feelings, to your bodies. Put yourself off. Switch off your cellphones, because getting a message right in the middle of lovemaking is the best way to lose track. To stop to answer it is downright crippling! It requires that you have organized yourself upstream to have the children looked after by someone in whom you have absolute confidence.
Take care of the decor
Another point of the preparatory phase, create a voluptuous atmosphere. Once the children are in bed, light scented candles or incense sticks, arrange dim lights, put on some soft music … Lie down on silky fabrics, colorful fabrics or fur if that’s more your thing. thing. The important thing is to install a setting conducive to letting go. Free yourself from the obligation of performance. Making love with the sole objective of reaching orgasm through penetration lacks a touch of refinement and sensuality. It’s like watching the end of a film while having skipped the beginning… Once freed from the performance obligation, you can massage yourself, touch yourself, caress yourself, as long as you wish. Focus on the sensual journey, not the destination. Focus on foreplay. Delay penetration as much as possible, let your bodies communicate and be enchanted, do not go straight to the point, namely orgasm.
Jessica’s testimony: “I manage to let go”
The practice of slow sex allowed me to give voice to my body. You just have to relax, relax your muscles, in bed, in the shower, lying on the grass …
The more the body relaxes, the more we feel. And the more you feel, the more pleasure you experience during sex. Now I manage to let go, to no longer think about the head I have, my bulges, what my lover must say to himself. I am totally involved, like in a bubble. Jessica
Discover new erogenous zones
The slower you adopt, the more time you take, and the richer your sexual encounter will be, because all your senses will be mobilized. Slowly explore every part of your sweetheart’s body with your hands, fingers, mouth. All parts of the body, from the hairline to the toes, back, neck, inner thighs, lips, shoulders, wrists, ears… can be sources of intense sensations. Savor each other for a long time.
Surprise
Slowing down the pace and changing habits destabilizes the brain, and it is precisely this destabilization that will renew excitement and revive desire, at home and at home. You will see how you will amaze each other, and find each other different. In fact, it’s as exciting as having sex with a new partner!
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Slow… and hot!
We destabilize the brain to revive the excitement! Slowing down the pace and changing habits destabilizes the brain, and it is precisely this destabilization that will renew excitement and revive desire, at home and at home.
Go on a real sensory journey for two
Incredible, how slowing down makes you feel a lot of things: the temperature of the other’s skin, the smell and taste of their sweat, the warmth of their breath, the supple texture of their flesh… Each becomes a lot. more aware of their partner, each is both active and passive, each can give and receive, and this rebalancing of roles between the two partners is very exciting for both.
Don’t let go of your gaze
Taking the time to look at your partner and to be watched by him will allow you to feel more free in your body. Observe his face, his gestures, his shapes, his skin, as you stroke him. And let him do the same. It’s very exciting because sexuality is very visual for both a man and a woman.
Let go of your complexes
Even if it is not so simple when you have complexes because of its curves or the small imperfections of your skin, it is worth giving up your complexes, not to be embarrassed by nudity, to let yourself be guided by his body in complete freedom. To get there, you just have to focus on the sensations and unplug your head.
Follow your feeling
Do not feel obligated to do this or that stroke, to practice all the positions of the Kama Sutra. Follow your desires, do as you feel! Warm up quietly with massages, caresses and if it stops there, if the sensuality of skin to skin satisfies you, do not force yourself to conclude with sexual intercourse. The goal of slow sex is to be good.
Jérémy’s testimony: “We make love everywhere”
“When Karen told me about slow sex, I thought it was a sexy trendy dance. In fact, the principle is to make love as we do naturally when we have just met. We discover each other, we explore, we spend hours caressing, touching. ” Jeremy