With brave girls, I worked out one interesting way to meet men. For example, at the airport. This can be done both with the help of children and with the help of girlfriends.
The legend is this — a friend or a child is lost, there is no phone, is it possible to call from yours … They call … A friend or mother approaches the “lost”. And then … it depends on the skill of the lady who approached, how the conversation will turn out — charmingly or charmingly to the loss of pulse — and the man already has a phone)))) So, now the enchanted one has every chance to continue the acquaintance he likes.
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At the Airport, girls did this, if with the help of children (or nephews), then at the age of ten. By the way, it was very, very interesting for the children-nephews — to overcome their fear: to approach. ask, carry on a conversation until mom / aunt come up.
This is presented to children as an exciting training on the topic of courage: what is for the mother herself, what is for them. Also, mom / aunt, coming up, told the man himself what an interesting undertaking he took part in, that this was such a mini-training to overcome shyness, and he was a very responsive and reliable person. What is not scary to him, but even nice to approach)))). And she thanked the man as much as possible for his responsiveness and involvement in this important for the child (or for the girlfriend, if there were no child assistants) communicative game.
By the way, gratitude and admiration, in addition to the polished external Image, worked as the biggest plus for the lady who approached.
After all, using the old female way of dating “ask for help” is most effective with two conditions:
– the service should be not burdensome;
— having received help, you can’t say “thank you” and quickly wrap it up (in the hope that the prince is already fascinated and will himself seek to continue the conversation-acquaintance).
He is still a little fascinated)))) or is already a little embarrassed by the beauty that appeared before his eyes (and will not figure out how to continue communication).
Therefore, using this dating method, it is important to understand that a request (question) is a very small pretext for acquaintance, but the effective essence of this approach is more to thank the man in return. Charm him with your flow of heat and light.
At a minimum, say “thank you”, flashing your eyes, express gratitude from the bottom of your heart, and also ask for the name of the hero. As a maximum, offer to do something for him, simple, again almost symbolic, or, for the most daring, invite him to drink a cup of coffee: “Will you allow me to treat you to a cup of coffee, as a token of gratitude?”
This sentence contains both gratitude, and a break in the template, and high energy, which together sooooo much contributes to falling in love.
Dear girls! Do not be afraid that a man considers your desire to get to know him. And it’s great that he thinks, and it’s not even worth hiding this desire (from some kind of fright, suddenly, letting coldness and disinterest on his face). There is nothing shameful in this desire, there is only honor for the other person. A smart one will always appreciate this honor and thank you with a warm attitude in return. Will it grow into familiarity? Life will show. Most importantly, you learn not to sit back and not wait for everything in life to happen by itself. You learn to influence and create favorable moments in your life to solve your problems. One of the important tasks at the time of finding a couple is the expansion of contacts. I wish you success in this field!