These are emotions without experience, they are easy to manage.
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Many of our emotions are emotional actions: we trigger them ourselves, intentionally.
Already children easily start their crying to their parents, for them it is elementary. We gladly welcome guests, and for a well-mannered person, this is simply natural. Girls on the forums carefully discuss when they should be offended by young people. and when it is not worth it — for them this is an applied question, not a theoretical one.
We must control our emotions just as we must control our hands and our speech↑. We know how to choose words, think over phrases. From childhood we are taught to speak correctly — in accordance with the situation. But after all, states, for example, emotions, can be selected as words — in accordance with the situation, idea and task. Emotions can be controlled, it is trainable. Heart — tell. You can learn not to imitate, not to overcome yourself, not to make a good face on a bad game, but simply to actually play a good game and not play a bad one. At least in the space of their emotions.
Of course, and there are many circumstances, much depends on … on what?
- The more emotional actions are only expressive movements, the less they are accompanied by experience, the easier it is to control them↑.
Just feigning resentment is one thing; experiencing resentment in time is a little more difficult and costly.
- Emotions are a kind of behavior, and we live among people. Accordingly, there are social conventions and social boundaries that any reasonable person takes into account↑.