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Couple: take the initiative
You have decided to play seduction on him there, right now, now? So don’t hesitate, be absolutely sure of yourself, tell yourself that you are as irresistible as Scarlett Joanson and Jennifer Lopez put together! Your motto is “when I want where I want”, do not let any doubt pollute your mind. Sweep away negative thoughts like “He prefers to watch a football match than me”, “He does not seem in the mood”, “The passion of the beginnings has fled”. All of these disheartening objections won’t stop you from rekindling the flame of desire in his eye if you really want to. You are the mistress of the game. If you wait until he decides to kiss you passionately, it may take time …
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So don’t hesitate to take the initiative, tickle it, turn it on, provoke it. The goal is to raise the desire. Kiss him on the neck, stroke him, nibble his ear, while he’s getting ready in the bathroom, just before going out (too bad if you’re late to your friends), in the elevator, in the car, in short, show yourself as motivated and flirtatious as when you first met …
Feel beautiful in his eyes
To seduce a man you must first seduce yourself. Find yourself a sexy look, treat yourself to jewelry, accessories, clothes that enhance your body. Feminine dresses, plunging necklines, it all depends on the assets you want to attract her attention to. Men are very sensitive to visual stimuli, they love high heels, shoes that wrap the foot like a jewel… And of course, think about renewing your lingerie to arouse his lust. No need to dress up, wear a black satin corset and stockings if that’s not your thing. You can be super sexy in white lace and eyelet embroidery. Remember Madonna in “Like a virgin” … The important thing is that you feel beautiful wearing a sexy style that suits you. The converse must be true. The more handsome your man looks in your eyes, the more receptive he will be to your seduction! Pamper him, show him that you have thought of him by offering him fashionable shirts, sweaters. Choose together outfits that suit him, correct his hairstyle, in short, take a sincere interest in him and help him to find a new look that matches and embellishes it. He will be flattered to feel that you are proud to have such a flirtatious by your side. The more you reassure a man about his qualities, his skills and the more he likes you, it is mathematical. Show your sweetheart that you like it, that it attracts you .. Tell him that you love his skin, his smell, his mouth, his hands, his eyes … Anything you want! The important thing is that he feels wanted by the woman who is by his side. If he does not find in your eyes this desperate admiration and this intense desire, he risks looking for them in the eyes of another woman, just to reassure himself about his male power of seduction … Attention!
Talk to him with … your body
Body language is as important as words. Do not hesitate to send gestural messages: smiles, glances, touches, supposedly fortuitous contacts, play with the emotion that touch brings. Don’t waste an opportunity, kneel down to her, bend down to whisper words of love in her ear. Hug him… To seduce someone you have to get their attention. Plant your gaze in his, lower your eyes from time to time with delight, make him talk about him and above all, listen to him, with a look of admiration that speaks volumes … Remember that smells also have the power to trigger erotic sensations, to stimulate desire. It is the dream evening to release a new perfume. Your wake will awaken his curiosity, surprise his olfactory cells which will immediately transmit a shock wave to the “sexual desire” area of his brain.
Put a touch of your new perfume behind the ear, in the neck, at the wrists and in the hollow of the knees, finish with a pschitt on your neckline. He knows your usual perfume by heart, with this new fragrance, he will have the impression of being with another woman, which is very exciting for his hunting instinct …
Surprise him constantly
You have certainly seen the movie “Hitch” in which Will Smith explains to us an infallible method of seduction. What does a professional seducer do to crack his prey? He does his research first and gives the coveted woman a surprise gift that is exactly what she is looking for., as if he already knew her, as if he guessed her. Apply this surprise technique by coming up with ideas for exceptional little surprise gifts for your man. It is not about the market value of the present, no need to ruin yourself, but the sentimental and emotional value. For example a place for the concert of his dreams, a watch (or any other object) that he adored and that he despaired of having lost that you found on ebay. The important thing is to fall right on his passion, he will fall for sure! Become a queen of improvisation. We haven’t found anything better than a slow dance or a tight-knit dance to stir up a man’s desire. If he does not make up his mind to invite you to dance, do not hesitate any longer, take the initiative, put on the CD of a Latin group that inspires you and bewitch it with your suggestive hip movements. All the senses participate in seduction, sight, touch, hearing, smell and of course taste.
Never forget to pleasantly titillate your lover’s taste buds. Succulent dishes, exquisite beverages, small sweet treats, refined dishes, go out of your way to delight his palate and satisfy the great gourmand who lies dormant in him. We don’t catch flies with vinegar, either, but we catch men with good food. It is a classic technique that has been proven for generations …
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