Worries are things that require our participation.
Carelessness is a state of absence of worries or not thinking about business and worries, life in a feeling of lightness, without a burden of worries.
When carelessness is possible
Being carefree is wonderful, but a carefree life is only possible when someone else takes care of you. A carefree childhood is given to children by caring and loving parents. Only those who took care of it yesterday will have a carefree vacation today. A carefree person can be lucky, but successful, seriously successful — only a caring person.
Take away the heavy preoccupation
Preoccupation is a fussy and anxious form of caring. Caring itself is not disturbing eyes, a frown on the forehead and tense intonations. See caring, caring, caring
Fussy preoccupation just happens to those who too often allow themselves carelessness, and then run around, trying to get out of the problems that they themselves have created. Fussy concern is most often a demonstrative behavior, it is a flag «I’m in trouble and I need your help!», But someone who cares about others will never raise such a flag. Life becomes more difficult — well, a caring person becomes more attentive and collected. If there is an opportunity to use the help of those who are disposed to this, they will definitely ask for help and use it, but fuss and concern have absolutely nothing to do with it.
Caring is joyful. Anxiety is dark and oppressive.
What to do with concern?
- Learn to plan your day and your life. See Planning
- Replace fears with foresight and care. See Dealing with Fear
- Develop a positive mindset for yourself. See How to develop positivity