In order for you to be able to choose a worthy lover, you need to understand men.
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Like any wisdom, female wisdom is the ability to see everything that happens not narrowly, but voluminously, from the fourth position of perception, take into account contexts and subtexts, take into account the past and think about the future, track trends. She has enough head for everything, a wise woman always remembers and takes into account all the nuances of present and future affairs.
Yes, it’s not easy, but the best women, elite women can do it.
She does not feel bad, a wise woman is not characterized by mood swings. She always has the same mood. Which? Good: cheerful and calm.
A wise woman is a loving woman, her interests naturally include helping the people she loves. At the same time, a wise woman is self-sufficient and independent. She knows how to be tough inside, while remaining soft and warm on the outside.
What is it, «hard inside»? The answer will not be difficult: “I love you very much, but I can’t live with you in these conditions,” the woman will say calmly and look at you warmly. And if she said “I can’t” and “I won’t”, then these words should be taken with the particle “NOT”, not even hoping that everything was said under the influence of a bad mood. The woman made a decision and voiced it, so it will be so.
A wise woman has no fears, although usually a woman and fears are synonyms. And again, a logical question: “A woman may not be afraid for her financial situation if she is able to feed herself, but can she not be afraid for her child”? A wise woman is not afraid of children. She is a good, attentive mother and cares about the safety of her child.
“I have been driving for twenty years and the first time I experienced fear was when I had a baby. He is in the car, he is wearing a seatbelt, but I am afraid” — this is a purely feminine approach that requires a separate discussion.
The next thought may seem harsh, but it needs to be understood, considered and discussed slowly. A wise woman in advance, even before the birth of children, is ready for the fact that they can die. And she accepts it calmly, without negative emotions. God gave, God took. We will do everything to keep the children alive, healthy and safe, but if something happens, we will continue to live, taking care of others.
A wise woman is quite earthly, but knows how to live in the position of an Angel.
Video from Yana Shchastya: interview with professor of psychology N.I. Kozlov
Topics of conversation: What kind of woman do you need to be in order to successfully marry? How many times do men get married? Why are there so few normal men? Childfree. Parenting. What is love? A story that couldn’t be better. Paying for the opportunity to be close to a beautiful woman.