Female weakness is a soft, begging demonstration by a woman of her difficulties, the inability to cope with the situation without outside help. Female weakness is not inherent in a normal woman, and when you see a weak woman and female weaknesses, you can be sure that this is either a game for a man, or a learned behavior in which a woman has played and now cannot get rid of it.
If a woman is not disabled and not seriously ill, female weakness is an absolute trick and a myth, female weakness does not really exist anywhere. In the absence of a man, a woman almost never demonstrates her feminine weakness, but copes with everything.
If a man left home on a business trip, his wife without him will simply cope with all everyday circumstances, she will be enough for everything without any weaknesses. “Whoever says that a woman is the weaker sex, let him try to pull the blanket off her at night …”
But the wisdom of a woman lies in the fact that when her husband returns from a business trip, she will definitely tell him that without him everything broke down here, that without him everything was terrible and he is her real savior. This is pleasant for a man, he will kiss her in all places for this, but we all know the price of these words: a smart woman without a man will simply cope with any difficulties.
Women’s weakness, as an adornment of a woman and her way of organizing those around her to help her, is mastered at a very early age. Childish shyness is one of the manifestations of such a game, only later the boys are explained that this is not a game for men, but they look at shy girls with tenderness, reinforcing this behavior.
A woman’s weakness is a game she plays for a man. It is pleasant for a man to feel that he is smart, strong, intelligent, wonderful, and a wise woman next to a man will always play along, as if she is weak and helpless, so that he feels his power and strength. A man wants to be big and powerful, to show his strength and in general he is mighty.
A man gives a woman a hand, a woman jumps out, leaning on his hand — how happy they are both! What, she couldn’t get off the stairs without his help? — she could, but a man is pleased to show his concern.
It is also nice for a woman to be small, to feel that she is taken care of, she is looked after, she likes it when she is shown attention and everything is done for her. Women’s weakness is beneficial to both parties, and the myth of women’s weakness is supported by both parties to mutual joy. Women’s weakness is manipulation, but due to the fact that in this case there is no disapproving attitude, this game is usually not called manipulation. And all is well, if sometime this did not cross a certain line, if women would not flirt, would not move into the position of an unfortunate victim, and the game of “internal saboteur” would not begin.
The game «internal saboteur» is born in childhood, like many other manipulative games. Children in the process of such games learn and insults, and fatigue, and tears. Tears and miserable helplessness are taught first of all by girls, since this is part of the format that girls are allowed to: girls get offended, sad, cry, their shoulders droop, they lose all desire. And she is frustrated and unable to do anything at all. What does it turn into later? — In a sad story where a woman is seriously helpless, can not cope with her own difficulties and is not respected by a man. In fact, men really do not like weak women and try not to mess with them.
«Weak woman» is a game that a wise woman plays for a man to emphasize his strength. This is fine. And “female helplessness” is a demonstration of suffering when no one helps you, it is a way to make a man serve your desires. It’s ugly, decent women don’t do it.
Materials from the Sinton forum
“Perhaps this is what femininity consists of, in order to look feminine, weak and sexy in a tracksuit, boots and a backpack.”
Anton:
I strongly disagree with the word «weak». Personally, I have always been attracted to strong women. I don’t perceive a weak woman as a friend — either a beautiful toy or a child — in general, I’m no match. Why do I need such a companion? I consider strength (not the ability to press two of my weights in the bench press) an essential component of femininity and sex appeal.
Woman’s response:
I read Anton’s post and it was like a mosaic was formed for me.
It seems to me that those men who are looking for this most notorious weakness in a woman, in fact, in this way close the holes IN THEMSELVES. That is, if a weak woman is next to me, then it follows that I, therefore, am strong. They need it. To feel great. And it is not at all necessary that a man from himself in life does not represent anything, no. I met very accomplished men who really needed it. Perhaps childhood traumas, the origin of which is unknown and «not memorable» even to themselves. And it’s not their fault.
When a man is whole, in fact, this weakness seems to him more of a burden and strain than something charming. How to deal with a child who constantly needs to be taken care of. And they instinctively shy away from them and look for an equal in all respects.