For most women, thinking as an independent internal activity is not typical. It is difficult for a woman to first think and then speak: in order to think, a woman begins to speak. Women’s thinking is impossible without speech, more precisely, accompanied by speech, it occurs more easily and habitually. The male way of thinking: first he formulated his thought within himself, then he said — for women it is possible, but difficult.
A woman thinks when she speaks, the process of speaking is her way of thinking. In the process of a monologue, or rather a dialogue, something begins to clear up, a woman has some meanings. So the logic of conversation can replace the logic of thinking.
In the process of ordinary life, a woman begins to speak only in order to understand herself, her thoughts and what she wants to say.
What should men consider? You should be more tolerant, not demand clarity right away. It is difficult for a woman to formulate her thesis briefly and in advance: she understands her main idea only when she has said everything that was in it. The male way of thinking: first he formulated his thought within himself, then he said — for women it is possible, but difficult.
Since the logic of conversation in a woman can easily replace the logic of thinking, it is useful for a man to be more attentive to the task of the conversation and its main line, to return the conversation to the topic more often.