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Almost everyone has in their memories a meeting with a person who understood us from a half-sigh and a half-look. Due to the will of circumstances, we had to part, and, returning thoughts to the past, we often regret the missed chance. But maybe it’s not so bad after all?
All sorts of people come across in life, and sometimes we are lucky — we meet our person. But it happens that the meeting does not take place on time. Falling in love is one of the greatest joys of life, especially with the right person at the right time, then everything falls into place. But what if the moment turned out to be unfortunate?
We all missed someone. Remember how it was? We felt how strongly we were drawn to each other, melted, looking into each other’s eyes. We were understood from a half-word, accepted quirks and admired virtues. The meeting was not accidental, it seemed that fate brought us together. But then everything went wrong. Perhaps he was moving to another city for work, or she was too busy to think about a relationship. When we are unable to influence the course of events, we have to come to terms with reality.
Are we depriving ourselves of something important?
Not so long ago, in psychological terminology, the definition of “fear of loss” (FOMO — the fear of missing out) appeared. When we desire a particular outcome and don’t get it, there can be feelings of loss, grief, regret, and even hostility. It seems to us that if we cling more tightly to these feelings, we will be able to maintain a connection with the ideal. But instead of hiding behind the misfortune of loss, like a shell, it is better to let go of negative feelings and just move on with life.
No one needs a relationship filled with resentment
If we have broken out of a difficult relationship or experienced an emotional breakup, our essence is wary of getting stuck in something like that again, even if we have the right person in front of us. Likewise, when there is a rare opportunity, such as a job abroad or admission to a dream university, few people would think to give up brilliant prospects for some kind of relationship.
On the other hand, a few years later suddenly realizing what bitterness overwhelms at the thought of a lost person is also not the best option. If there is resentment, even a good relationship will end.
There will still be an excuse for parting
When everything inside protests against the relationship or it is inappropriate, trying to step on your throat will lead to a painful ending. It would seem that everything is perfect and one could try, but not now.
Forced relationships will give short-term happiness, but in the end it will become clear that nothing good happened
Here’s the truth about why we meet these people at the wrong time. It hurts to accept. But don’t feel sorry for them, they weren’t right. The right person always shows up on time, because such people are timeless.
They will support our dreams and goals and will always be somewhere near. We do not live in different eras and still remain on the same emotional wave. No one expects anything from us, and we do not have to apologize for our lives.
What do the wrong people teach?
After all, they show up to show what true love is. Sounds contradictory, but it’s true. Wrong people remind us that we are all imperfect and go through a process of self-development to become what we want to be. Love comes several times in life, each of its arrival teaches something new and beautiful.