You don’t need to go to a psychologist if you feel the joy of life: the joy of relationships, the joy of work, the joy of where you live, where you are going.
I got up in the morning, and my heart was filled with joy! Calm light joy! No oppressive thoughts… no dissatisfaction… no hanging in conflicting desires and fears..
Is that possible?
Attention!
It is possible not to hang in your conflicting thoughts for years.
It is possible to make decisions in a short time and enjoy them.
It is possible to live with loved ones and relatives.
It is possible to be in the warmest, most sincere relationship with your children, with your parents.
It is possible to live without resentment, in joy and trust.
And if there is anxiety in the soul, in other words, this constant lurking dissatisfaction, and this has not been the first day …
Then the direct road to the psychologist. We do not live with toothache, we go to the dentist.
Why are people so oblivious to psychological pain?
Most often because it is not sharp. But from this it is no less harmful to humans.
But in practice, I am faced with the fact that many are so accustomed to anxiety, to their dissatisfaction, that they begin to consider it even the norm.
And — they come to a psychologist, if suddenly someone’s pain has become so acute — when either «in the noose» from this pain, or to a psychologist.
When does this happen in women?
In most cases, going to a psychologist is associated with betrayal, with a divorce, or when they understand that they still need to part with their passionate “married man”, that they have been lowering their lives into the void for the eighth year, but they themselves cannot part …
This pain is piling up with such a wave that covers the head … that there is no strength to endure, and this cannot be called the norm!
Girls, but if there was a betrayal or even the departure of a husband from the family, or if the eighth year a man does not seek to start a family with a woman … then the problem did not start at that moment. The problem is that a woman has long been living with her nagging pain, with the bells of dissatisfaction, anxiety … but there is a habit of not noticing them. There is a habit of calling it the norm.
It’s a pity!
The life of a modern person is long.
To live a long, unhappy life … — what could be worse?
Worse than dying. I didn’t live, humanly — and it’s time to die already. People who do not have time to become happy die hard. Who are afraid to be happy.
Who lived, not being afraid to realize his desires, not stingy to spend his strength on them — he is not afraid to die. This man fulfilled himself every day. Step by step, step by step, he did not betray himself, his dreams.
Who regrets their childhood? who didn’t have a childhood.
Who regrets their life? Who didn’t have the life he dreamed of.
And if in childhood we cannot always manage our lives, then having crossed the threshold of eighteen years, we can take life into our own hands.
Take it! It’s never too late to do it!
We don’t always get what we want right away, but we always know:
Are we on our way to what we want?
Or we huddle, in the sense we do nothing, and take only what somehow came to us by itself … or we mistakenly launched into our lives, but still we are not going to sweep away!
Sweep! Rebuild your life!
Friends, even a single day to live at least on the way to what we want, what we dream of is already a great happiness!
It’s no longer scary to die! Because I felt, plunged, because you know what HAPPINESS is!
We all know that we were born for this, to become happy.
Do you understand?
We all know that happiness is the ultimate goal of existence, our meaning of life.
Don’t give up on her!
Why go to a psychologist?