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Who do children become depending on the type of character
Every parent’s dream is an obedient child who turns into a successful adult. But sometimes your toddler’s success depends on the most annoying personality traits.
“But who is he like!” You exclaim in your hearts. Most likely in you. You just don’t remember. Moreover, these traits that now enrage you can make a child the most successful and happiest person on the planet.
1. Confidence and stubbornness
Everyone has probably encountered manifestations of stubbornness in a child. Every kid has shown inflexibility at least once when it came to, for example, buying a new toy or chocolate. And how zealously the children defend their right not to wear tights in winter!
But there are some children who crave victory at any cost. And you can break into a cake, but he will go to the kindergarten in shorts, even though it is January in the yard. It is quite easy to recognize the parents of such a child. They have a chronically aching jaw from suppressed curses.
When these children turn into adolescents, it can be very difficult to deal with them. It is impossible to convince them of anything. But think about it – this stubbornness has its advantages. If a child strictly follows his convictions, this means that he is protected from the influence of the crowd. Herd feeling? No, this is not about him. I see the goal – I see no obstacles – that’s about him.
So if you are lucky enough to raise a little stubborn, know that you are raising a future boss and a real leader.
He clings to his mother’s dress, barely peeking out from behind it, hiding from these terrible loud strangers. He is always calm, assiduous and accurate. But sometimes it just pisses you off, refusing to go out and say hello to your aunt. Yes, your child is an introvert. Congratulations.
Sooner or later, your baby will grow out of his stiffness and excessive shyness. But this does not mean at all that they will strive for the role of the first violin. They will never love too much attention.
But on the other hand, your sensitive toddler will be protected by his own self from unbridled teenage entertainment. And then he grows up to be a thoughtful, compassionate adult, able to empathize and empathize.
Your current introvert is tomorrow’s thinker. Who knows, maybe he will become the world’s best yoga instructor. Or maybe he will create a charitable foundation to help those in need.
3. Impudence and talkativeness
Traits of a future successful lawyer. If your child strives to end any argument or discussion so that he has the last word, then you will surely grow up to be an incredibly eloquent speaker.
It may even seem like he is not respectful enough to you, his own parents. But this is just a trait of his personality – to challenge authority. They are also often stubborn and can be ruthless with harsh judgments. But who knows, maybe these very qualities will lead him to the UN? A lawyer, for example, or a messenger of peace. Or he will take his place in diplomatic circles. Anything can be. So the best thing you can do for him. – teach how to properly conduct a discussion, as well as pay attention to the development of logic and analytical skills.
4. Love for the thrill. Or simply pint-style
If he disappeared from the field of view for a couple of seconds, you can be sure that you will find him in a tree in the yard, from where he rescues a kitten, for example. Or testing an aircraft of their own invention. Or the next second he will jump on you from the closet, wrapped in a curtain – this is your personal superhero.
He cannot sit still for a second. He is a future traveler, climber, marathon runner, inventor, diver, parachutist. Rebel soul and adventurer.
Your baby is invincible. He will very soon learn to push the boundaries of the possible, challenge anything – just not to know what boredom is.
Such people make us feel the heartbeat of life sharper. And they often become ambulance doctors, surgeons, pilots, firefighters, even investigators.
5. Dreaminess and detachment
“Earth, earth, answer! Hello are you there?” Is your baby constantly immersed in his dreams, from which it is so easy to pull him out? Yes, it can be annoying sometimes. Because he has to repeat everything twice. Or even three. Such children are absent-minded, they always forget to put a diary in their briefcase, charge their phone. You ask him to get dressed, and after 15 minutes you find him standing in front of the TV with a sock in his hands.
Such a child will grow up to be a person who will never worry in vain. He will not fray the nerves from eternal stress and will not rush to the hospital with an ulcer. He is a dreamer and misses the blows of fate. Such people are often inclined towards creative careers: they become musicians, fashion designers, artists.
All these children are different. But all require one thing – love and patience. After all, when they grow up, they will definitely become very good people. Maybe just because of those character traits that are now terribly infuriating.