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What kind of man to choose? This tall handsome man in a solid business suit or that cheerful ringleader in torn jeans? Promising or soulful? Romantic or commercial?
No matter how much we discuss our “portraits of the ideal man” with our girlfriends, few people manage to meet such an example in life. Are there really no real men left? Do not rush to get upset, there is a chance: you just need to be able to see this real man.
Some women intuitively know which men to choose, they say that they are “lucky” with men. At the same time, in addition to natural instinct, a woman can and should use rational approaches. How intelligently and consistently choose your man is an interesting science. You can master it at the trainings of Irina Miroshnichenko.
How does a wise woman choose a man?
Have you ever wondered how a woman who is “lucky” with men differs from the rest? How does she decide which man to choose? Her wisdom begins with one very simple and very intelligent thing: she hears what men say. There is also a second one, but more on that later.
If you learn to at least just hear a man, you won’t have to guess “whether he is suitable”, “whether he is real”. You will know exactly what kind of man you choose.
At the same time, you need to hear not only words, you need to hear meanings. This is easy if you are attentive enough and know how to highlight the main thing.
How to highlight the main thing?
A man talks about how he quit his last job because of a tyrant boss who constantly yelled at employees and found fault with work. Let’s assume that this is absolutely true. What is the point behind this? — A man tends to blame others (“he quit because of …”) and shift the responsibility for his failures to them (not a word about his shortcomings), problems may continue to arise in communications with superiors.
The man enthusiastically talks about plans to move to live in another country. Does this mean that he is a purposeful person? So far, this only means his ability to speak beautifully and set big goals. How well he can achieve these goals is a big question. It is worth finding out if he had the experience of achieving (or not achieving) some big goals in other areas of life.
A man constantly talks about his cheerful friends, joint parties and entertainment. You need to understand that entertainment is one of the important aspects of his life, this will have to be taken into account.
If a man talks little about himself, it does not matter. He still shows his qualities — in conversations about the weather, nature, films, even when choosing dishes on the menu. In extreme cases, you can push him a little on the right topics. And this is about the second important thing: a man needs to be asked. Ask about how he imagines relationships, family, life together.
This must be done carefully and gradually, a man may be frightened of questions “on the forehead”. Better first, watch how Irina Miroshnichenko does it — a couple of mise-en-scenes in her performance will tell you more than a dozen articles.
Ask men about specific life situations
When you start asking your men not only about abstract things, but also about specific life situations, it will become much clearer to you which man to choose.
Who pays for whom in the cafe? How often should you give each other gifts? Is it possible to devote friends to the details of your relationship? How will we respond to delays, unfulfilled promises?
If you are aiming for a serious long-term relationship, then you should scout out more serious questions in advance:
If he earns decently, should she stay at home and raise children? Or will he expect from her the same financial contribution to the family?
How many children do you want and when? What to do in case of an unplanned pregnancy?
Who cooks dinner in the evening — who came earlier or a woman? Are complaints about «tasteless» accepted?
If one is sick, how should the other behave? Is a person obligated to monitor their health, go in for sports?
How will you react to your partner’s bad and unpleasant habits? How do you feel about smoking and alcohol?
There are many questions like this in life. In order not to forget anything, take a look at this list.
From such trifles, then a joint life is formed. If you managed choose your man, it will surely be long and happy.
Talk to men, listen to them and ask the right topics — and you will succeed! And to get inspired, come to the trainings of Irina Miroshnichenko, in the company of like-minded people to understand relationships more efficiently and more pleasantly!