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After the birth of children, many marriages begin to fall apart like beads from a torn necklace. Others, on the contrary, only get stronger. What is the secret, the stars will tell.
Some people seem to be better off never to date. After all, you probably also noticed – you just met, they don’t know anything about each other, but literally at first glance you are ready to grab the throat of a new acquaintance. But it happens that at first glance everything is wonderful, then – romance and a wedding, but on the test of children, the marriage breaks down. What’s the fault? Astrologers are confident that they can answer this question as well. It turns out that some couples shouldn’t have children at all – they will never agree on parenting.
Pisces and Gemini
Let’s start from afar: these signs are incompatible for living together. Their temperaments and attitudes are too different. But if, nevertheless, a couple was formed, then there will be no unanimity in raising children. Moreover, both parents will strive to shift responsibility for the behavior of the younger generation onto each other. And while mom and dad do not show initiative with the baby, who is interfering in the relationship? Granny, of course! An overbearing mother-in-law or a too caring mother-in-law takes under the pedagogical gaze not only of the lesser family member, but also of the elders. Therefore, conflicts between the parents of the child and the grandmother will be regular. “You don’t know how to educate, you don’t know what is best for a child, etc.” —that is all.
Taurus and Gemini
By itself, the representative of each sign is a very good parent. Sometimes they even take too much care of their child, not allowing him to earn his own life experience. Both Taurus and Gemini are ready to rush with their baby all their lives, preparing breakfast for him and indulging in whims. But if Taurus and Gemini are a family union, then they have no time for upbringing. They will be too immersed in sorting out the relationship with each other, both temperamental and emotional. Therefore, the child will grow up in a tense atmosphere of conflict, which is fraught with neurasthenia and self-doubt in adulthood. In addition, the negative experience of the parents can affect the future family life of the child.
Sagittarius and Taurus
The freedom-loving and charismatic Sagittarius does not like diktat in any of its manifestations, therefore, he gives his children complete freedom of action. What can not be said about the stubborn and intolerant of a different opinion Taurus. On this basis, and disagreements in the education of children. Sagittarius relies on trust, and Taurus relies on authoritarianism and unquestioning obedience. If a couple honors pedagogical science, then the clarification of the relationship will not take place in front of the child, and perhaps a compromise will be found. This is a good development of the script. And if Sagittarius and Taurus do not want to listen to anyone, they will make things worse for themselves and for the child, who will quickly realize that this situation can be used to their advantage. These opportunistic tricks will remain in his arsenal for life. But whether it will do him good is unknown. In addition, the pressure and exorbitant severity of Taurus is also useless: children either grow up constricted and unsure of themselves, or at one point throw off their “oppression” and become unrestrainedly liberated.
Scorpio and lion
If a familiar kid almost from the cradle learns foreign languages, dives in the pool and comprehends the science of communication using a newfangled method, this means that his parents are Scorpio and Leo. Both representatives are very ambitious and conceited. Their whole life is a successful presentation about themselves. Therefore, the child must become a part of this project and demonstrate excellent performance. But such moms and dads need to think about the fact that not all are born geniuses, and excessive workload will not lead to anything good. At some point, the child will lose interest in what is interesting not to him at all, but to his parents, and will begin to resist. Advice: do not surprise anyone with children’s successes, watch your child and let him develop in the direction that he himself likes.
Pisces and Libra
Sociable Pisces and compromise Libra will always agree with each other. But pedagogy is not their strong point. In what they are united, it is in the opinion that kindergartens, schools and circles will cope with their upbringing perfectly for them. But no one can replace communication with mom and dad for a child, he will learn the lessons of life better from his parents than from other specialists. Therefore, aggression, tearfulness and exactingness may appear in the behavior of the baby. This is nothing more than an attempt to draw attention to yourself. Draw conclusions.
Virgo and Pisces
Too demanding Virgos cannot do without claims to others. Everything must be perfectly organized. And soft and passive Pisces value their comfort very much. Therefore, they prefer not to interfere in negative situations, even if this is an educational moment with their own child. And then Virgo takes the rap for two parents. But this should not be so: both mother’s and father’s influence are important for the baby, so he receives invaluable lessons, protection. In addition, we know what idealists Virgo are – they expect full return from their studies, and this is fraught with the formation of a complex of insecurity in the child, inconsistency with parental expectations.