What women are lucky in love

Bad luck in love is not a sentence. By working on yourself, you can always change the situation for the better. The main thing is to learn to value yourself and not try to change others.

She will be lucky in love if…

• She loves and accepts herself entirely, even if something in herself does not quite suit her. She doesn’t need a relationship to maintain her self-respect. She is independent and can take care of herself.
• She accepts others as they are without trying to change them.
• It does not repress either «negative» or «positive» emotions.
• She is constantly engaged in self-development, monitors her appearance.
• She has high self-esteem. She enjoys being in the company of men, accepting them for who they are. She does not need to be needed for someone to feel that she is a worthy person.
• She allows herself to be open and trusting with some people. However, he will not allow himself to be exploited.

• She knows she deserves all the best that life has to offer her.
• When entering a relationship, she asks herself, “How good is this relationship for me? Do they help me grow? Am I allowed to be who I can be?
• If the relationship is only trouble and destroys her personality, she can say: “Let her go,” and at the same time she does not fall into despair. She has a circle of friends, her own hobbies, which allows her to survive the crisis.
• She knows how to protect herself, takes care of her health and her own well-being. She is not attracted by intense struggle in relationships, drama, chaos.
• She knows that sustainable, growing, healthy relationships are between partners who have similar values, interests, and goals.
• She also knows that she deserves the very best that life has to offer.

• When entering a relationship, she asks herself, “How good is this relationship for me? Do they help me grow? Am I allowed to be who I can be?
• If the relationship is only trouble and destroys her personality, she can say: “Let her go,” and at the same time she does not fall into despair. She has a circle of friends, her own hobbies, which allows her to survive the crisis.
• She knows how to protect herself, takes care of her health and her own well-being. She is not attracted by intense struggle in relationships, drama, chaos.
• She knows that sustainable, growing, healthy relationships are between partners who share similar values, interests, and goals. She also knows that she deserves the very best that life has to offer.

She is unlucky in love. Why?

Why are good, attentive, devoted women often unlucky? Women are not to blame for this. And even the circumstances of the meeting with a partner have nothing to do with it. More importantly, what kind of childhood they had, what kind of relationships developed in the parental family.

Here is what usually distinguishes such women:

• Often they grew up in dysfunctional (unhealthy) families where their emotional needs were not met. For example, the father or mother was sick with alcoholism.
• They were little cared for as children. And now they begin to replace the unsatisfied need for attention with increased care for someone, especially for a man with a difficult fate, who is in great need of help, guardianship. They become a wife, a nanny, a mother. Their calling is to save.
• They willingly take most of the blame for relationship failures.
• The lack of experience of loving and caring parents affects the building of relationships in adulthood. They are attracted to emotionally inaccessible men, whom they try to change with the help of boundless love.
• Having experienced the horror of rejection as a child, they do everything possible to prevent the breakup of a relationship with the man they love.
• They are willing to take most of the blame or responsibility in any relationship.
• Accustomed to the lack of love since childhood, these women are ready to wait, hope and do everything possible to please their chosen one.

• They have low self-esteem, and deep down they don’t believe they deserve to be happy. They feel they have to earn the right to enjoy life.
• Such women often seek to control the behavior, feelings and thoughts of a man. They stand guard over the relationship like a sentry on duty, as they lived in an insecure and insecure environment as children. They try to become necessary and even irreplaceable. Often such women choose the so-called helping professions (medical worker, psychologist, educator, teacher, waitress).
• Their love is often difficult both for themselves and for a partner. This is an «all-consuming and withering» feeling.

• Sometimes they tend to be addicted to alcohol, drugs, drugs, or certain types of food (such as sweets).
• They are attracted to people with problems who need «salvation». They are touched by situations where chaos, uncertainty, emotional suffering reign. However, they avoid responsibility for themselves.
• Such women often have a tendency to depression, which they try to prevent by getting involved in fragile, «stormy» relationships.
• They are not attracted to kind, reliable men who show interest in them. They seem cute, but boring.