What to do with those who often play the unfortunate Victim?

Situation from the life of a business woman: live it like your own. It’s late, you’re tired and you’re about to go to bed, but suddenly the phone rings. You raise that e.u. and you hear the voice of your friend… This time, your friend is completely useless, crying sobbing, and through her sobs you hardly understand that she is on the verge, that her husband has been drinking for three days, that she has found his notebooks. books with phone numbers of his women, and in general he recently had a daughter from that whore. You try to calm her down, but you don’t know how. After half an hour of your unsuccessful attempts, your girlfriend quits that e.u., and you feel that you didn’t do everything for her…

In fact, you have fallen into the trap of the Karpman triangle. The Karpman triangle is a standard relationship model consisting of three roles: Victim — Persecutor — Savior. There is a lot of research on it, and the main thing you need to know about this triangle is that you don’t belong there. Whatever role you are attracted to there, or whatever role you are persistently offered, you do not belong in this triangle.

Why?