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What should be the bikini area?
As the saying goes, taste and color are all equal. Especially in such an intimate question: to have hair or not. It’s funny if families start falling apart because of such nonsense. You can always come to a compromise. For example, in winter to warm, and in summer – to be naked. Isn’t it an approach? Or is everything much more serious here? Wday.ru found three stories on the forum and decided to introduce you to them.
The first story: our family for naturalness
Olga, 32 years old: “Before, I didn’t even think about wearing the wrong“ hairstyle ”until the girls in the bathhouse laughed. They unanimously told me that they hadn’t been walking for so long. Honestly, I don’t care, and my husband, most importantly, likes my choice. I look decent on the beach and I don’t see any reason to change anything. In my opinion, the girly smoothness is something like pink bows and duck lips. I feel like a grown girl, and it should be visible. “
Story two: the husband wants it hot
Svetlana, 40 years old: “Who would have told me about this 10 years ago, I would not have believed it. But this topic in our family has recently become the cause of many scandalous conversations. Once my husband suggested experimenting and growing fluff (since my youth I still prefer to do Hollywood) in my intimate place. It was winter, it was far from vacation, so I agreed. I thought at that moment that I would not lose money, and I would save money for the family budget, hair removal is expensive today.
And he, can you imagine, lit up and now wants only this way. I already explained to him that this is unhygienic and my doctor advises to stop this self-indulgence, he stands his ground: “I just want this and no other way.” Believe it or not, it’s hot and tingly, and I feel like an 80-year-old granny ”.
The third story: why do I need this epilation?
Christina, 25: “I’m probably a Stone Age girl, but still my best friend is a razor. And I don’t understand why you need to spend money on beauty salons and endure this hellish pain. Yes, I have hair on my arms, legs, in an intimate place, and I believe that this is normal, this is our nature. True, I recently had an embarrassment when I started dating a guy. He was, to put it mildly, shocked by my appearance. He said that they don’t wear that now. But, honestly, these are his problems, I will walk the way I feel comfortable, but it is comfortable for me to be hairy. “
It is hardly possible to give an unambiguous answer, because no matter how many social surveys were conducted in different parts of the world on the topic “shave or not shave,” in their preferences, men were divided into approximately two equal camps: “for nature” and “for smoothness.” And if your opinion on this matter differs from the opinion of your man, then there is only one thing left: find out why he has this or that position, and agree!
But remember that your body is primarily your body! And first of all, it’s up to you: to be or not to be hair, and then listen to the opinion and preferences of another person, even if it is your own husband! After all, if your man wants to feel like a Neanderthal so badly, then give him that chance and stay natural!
Relationships are always about compromise. Communicate with each other, do not be afraid to ask questions and find out the reasons for this or that phenomenon, so that at the end of days it does not work out, as in that parable about the crust and crumb:
“Once upon a time there was a husband and a wife. We have lived together all our lives in perfect harmony, have grown old together …
Now they are an old man and an old woman. The old man fell ill, he feels not long left for him. So he asks his wife to fulfill his last request:
– I want, – he says. – Honey, eat a crust of bread. All my life I have eaten only the crumb, giving you, my dear, a hump – the most delicious in bread, and today I would like to taste the crisp for the last time, so I love it. The old woman heard this and sat down:
– And all my life I loved the crumb and ate the crumb, because you gave them to me. Thought you didn’t love them. So I gave you the most delicious thing in bread – the tender crumb. “
Interview
Do you do epilation?
Yes, regularly, I can’t live without it
No, I think it’s beautiful without it
Sometimes when going on vacation or a romantic date with a sequel