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In a healthy couple, any sexual position can lead to conception. However, partners often wonder if there are ways to increase the chance of conception with ars amandi. It is difficult to answer this question unequivocally, because there is no official position on this matter, but … Sometimes it is worth deciding on a new, non-standard step that can shorten the waiting time for offspring and make the moments together more attractive.
Are you trying for a baby? Avoid stress!
Are there rules of the art of loving designed specifically for people trying to conceive? Many couples struggle with this question. Specialists agree: stress should be avoided at this particular time. It is not worth worrying in advance and wondering why, after several months of intercourse, fertilization has not yet taken place. You can always consult a specialist who will rule out more serious causes. But it should be remembered that in most couples (80-90%) pregnancy is the result of a year of efforts and regular (frequent) intercourse. 50% to fertilization of the remaining couples have no problems in the second year of trying to get pregnant, and the partners do not have to undergo any therapy. It is worth mentioning that doctors recommend professional consultation after a year of fruitless efforts in the bedroom.
Deep penetration: classic position
How to support efforts for a child during intimate intercourse? It is believed that effective positions enable, above all, deep penetration and thus shorten the difficult path of sperm through the vagina. It is recommended, among others classic (also called missionary) position with raised hips (e.g. based on a pillow) and legs entwined around the partner’s torso or placed on his shoulders. It is worth keeping your legs up for some time after intercourse, this will allow the semen to stay near the cervix for longer. You can lean them against the wall, against your partner, make a “candle”, etc. The simultaneous tightening of the Kegel muscles additionally promotes the “sperm migration” towards the egg cell. The pubococcygeus muscle should be exercised regularly, because – trained – it contributes to stronger sexual sensations, facilitates the course of physiological childbirth, and also prevents many health problems in the future.
Knee-elbow position and relaxation
Some couples trying to conceive recommend the so-called “backward positions”, i.e. knee-elbow positions. It is believed that they can help fertilization, especially in women with a retroverted uterus and in men whose semen contains a lower sperm count or gametes with reduced motility. During the love weave, the partner should kneel on all fours, with her back to the partner, put her breasts on the bed and direct her buttocks as far up as possible. Thanks to this, the force of gravity will help to overcome the sperm path. Joining the legs by the woman narrows the entrance to the vagina and becomes a source of stronger erotic sensations for both. The partner in this position can intensively stimulate the G-spot of the chosen one. Couples who dream of having children and are wondering how to increase their chances of having the desired child should not forget that sex is primarily pleasure, intimacy, strengthening mutual relations and relaxation. If he is dominated only by the thought of fertilization, the spell can easily be broken. That is why it is worth focusing on the moment “here and now” and ensuring that the bedroom is filled with an atmosphere of mutual tenderness, acceptance, desire and fulfillment.