The name, like nothing else, affects the character, and therefore the fate of a person. Therefore, the choice of a name should be taken with particular seriousness.
There are many fashion trends in this business: someone prefers rare names, someone – old ones, others like popular ones or even names from serials. So whose character will be easier, and the fate happier?
According to the child psychologist and specialist in pedagogical psychotherapy Yulia Kalchenko, one should not only carefully select the name, but also be careful about which form of the name the child hears most often. For example, if you constantly refer to the baby in a diminutive form, then this will certainly affect the character – excessive softness will appear, which may be good for a girl, but unacceptable for a boy.
– For every person, the name is the most important thing that can be, – says Julia. – Does it affect life? Yes, for several reasons. Firstly, it plays a role, how many famous people and historical figures bore this name, since in any case society will compare on a subconscious level. The same situation occurs when a child is named after grandmothers or grandfathers – relatives will expect similar behavior, character traits, and success from him. One way or another, the child is under pressure from an early age.
Secondly, it is important how the name sounds. Consonants, and especially voiced consonants in a name, as a rule, contribute to the formation of activity and self-confidence. We can say that consonants form an inner core. On the contrary, names with a lot of vowels are more often worn by soft people. It is important how the parents call the child. Caress should not be overused. It is better to alternate between diminutive, short, and full forms of the name and use each form on a special occasion. This can be a signal for the child, he will know: if he is addressed by his full name, it means that the elders are unhappy with his behavior.
Third, the popularity of the name matters. Relatively speaking, if there are five Natasha in the class, the child may lose his sense of individuality. On the other hand, if you are giving a rare name to your child, make sure he is comfortable living with him. The name can help in life, or it can become a hindrance.
Ariana Veda, a clairvoyant and Vedic astrologer, believes that a name may not suit a person and then it should be changed:
– There are three important foundations in the life of every person. The number of the soul is the day of the month when a person was born; fate number – the sum of all digits of the date of birth; the number of the name, when each letter of the name has its own number, and these numbers, in turn, add up to one. These three numbers correspond to the planets, and of particular importance is how these planets interact with each other, they should not conflict. If there is a conflict, then the name will interfere with the person and must be changed.
The most popular names in 2016 among Rostovites were: Sofia, Maria, Anastasia, Polina, Alexandra, Elizaveta, Daria, Anna, Alisa and Arina, as well as Artem, Alexander, Maxim, Mikhail, Ivan, Dmitry, Kirill, Matvey, Andrey and Egor. Rare names are Louise, Isabella, Glafira, Zlataslava, Thekla, Euphrosinia, Suzanne, Roxana, Lukerya, Appolinaria and Mark, Eldar, Illarion, Svyatogor, Lazar, Spartak, Kondraty, Roots, Jaromir, Potap. By the way, astrologer Ariana Veda talks about the reasons for the popularity of the name Sophia:
– Apparently, people on a subconscious level feel that this name brings prosperity, because it is under the auspices of Jupiter. For example, I analyzed the date of birth of Sofia Rotaru. Her soul number is 7, which means huge talent, the number of destiny is 1 – this explains social success, the number of the name is 3, and this is Jupiter – prosperity. This is how a name can influence fate. I also want to say that you should not name children after relatives who died not by their own death or in honor of people with a difficult fate – history may repeat itself.
Magician Namtar Enzigal, participant of the 16th “Battle of Psychics”, on the contrary, believes that the name in no way can affect the fate of a person:
– There are many different saints and other brochures for adherents of a religious worldview, as well as simply reference books and websites. But all this can only facilitate the choice of a name for the parents and will not affect the fate of the child in any way. All data, including karmic nuances, are inherent in a person even before his birth, therefore a name is a formality, it will not in any way affect the fate of a person and will not change anything. And you need to choose the name of the child solely based on the customs of the area where you live, and the tradition that you adhere to, so that the child is comfortable to grow and develop, and the name does not hurt the ears of those around him.
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