The nursery teacher complains that the child is biting. Here’s one yesterday so bitten on the hand that the ice had to be applied. Moreover, he chose, of course, the quietest and most harmless boy for his attempt … Of course! He’s not a fool of those who bite older, those lively helluva lot. If you bite one, there will be nothing left for the next.
The teacher asked to influence …
Yes, here’s the problem: other children in a nursery are definitely not car wheels that can be forbidden to bite and lick, because then “the tummy will be wow” and it’s unpleasant in the mouth. After all, children are soft, warm, tasty and squeak very funny when you bite them, not some soulless wheels! …
At least bite him himself so that he understands how very painful and unpleasant it is for the bitten …
Well, it did. He waited until he tried to bite his mother again, caught him red-handed and began to reprimand. He explained in detail why it is bad and why it should not be done. Strictly moved his index finger up and down. He shook his head from side to side, saying, “No! Not! Not! It is forbidden!».
What else can I do? He bites me too. Once he crept up behind me while I, sitting on the floor, changed the batteries in the typewriter and bit him on the shoulder blade, but it hurt so much that I screamed, my teeth are sharp! Another time, he just bitten his hand, which hung from the bed in a dream. She bites her grandmother and her great-grandmother, but her mother still gets the most, even more than the children in the nursery.
The child already perfectly understands «it is impossible»! They say it’s very good when a child at fourteen months clearly learned the meaning of the word «no», at least that’s what one friend told me. Many children even at 3 years old do not understand this.
So now he absolutely knows how, if necessary, you can easily and quickly bring adults to white heat.
Here he stands, for example, by the shoe closet, holding his shoe in his hands, which they have not yet had time to wash after the walk, and clearly intends to try it on the tooth. Just try, nothing else. He hears a strict: “Do not take it in your mouth, DO NOT!”. The child instantly stuffs the shoe into his mouth, because after the magic phrase, one of the adults will come running and take it away, not allowing him to enjoy the divine taste…
And now he knows for sure that it is impossible to bite. Now he approaches quickly, quickly, bites and immediately becomes instructive, rests one hand on his side, begins to drive the protruding index finger of the other hand up and down and shake his head from side to side, saying: “no-no-no”, exactly as I did when I inspired him …
From reviews
- I read that weaning from biting can be done by biting the child himself, since words are one thing, and here you have to respond with action for action. he will never understand that another person can be in pain until he feels it for himself
- Hee, and my friend also slightly bit her child, he stopped biting her :))
- You know, they have an age: “biting-underdogging”. What does girls have a little earlier than boys, but all without exception. You can talk, but to no avail. It will pass like an acute respiratory disease … You can bite yourself, as a warning. It will drive for three days (honestly)