Femininity and modern women’s culture are two different things.
Femininity is a style of behavior. It’s softness and beauty, it’s play and seduction, it’s promise and refusal, it’s engagement and grace. Watch the joke ballet, where Nikolai Tsiskaridze portrays a cute girl: wonderful, attractive and bewitching!
And modern women’s culture is different. This is not a style of behavior, but a set of values and beliefs in which modern girls are brought up. What?
These are the values “the main thing is safety, comfort and entertainment”, “a child is more important than a husband”, “you need to love yourself first”, “I am my body first”, “it is right to take care of the weak first of all” and “I — weak», these are the norms «it is normal to live with feelings, it is natural to be afraid and worry.» This also includes the setting “a woman is not a soldier, unquestioning obedience is contrary to her nature. A woman is a cat, and a cat does everything either in its own way or later.” This is instilled in girls from childhood, women’s forums are full of these attitudes today, psychologists teach the same at their trainings if they want their trainings to sell well …
There are women who are devoid of femininity, but who fully realize the norms of modern women’s culture, and there have always been wonderful feminine women who are not close to modern women’s culture. The wives of the Decembrists, graduates of the Smolny Institute for Noble Maidens, are carriers of a different female culture.
I am for femininity and I am against modern women’s culture.
A fragment from the movie «Breakfast at Tiffany’s» starring the amazing Audrey Hepburn…
So he loves her, loves her very much. She decided to live with him and runs to him.
He stands in the rain, saw and waits for her. Now she will throw herself into his arms!
There is also a cat nearby, with whom she also broke up. And the kitty is also somewhere in the rain!
Then she, not coming up to him, asks: “Where is the cat?” and goes to look for the cat. That is, it is clear that she came to him, even in the first place she came to him, but — but he will wait. At first, she wants to find a cat, he is lonely and wet.
And the man will wait. Beloved — wait, right?
This completely fits into modern women’s culture, women watch this episode with emotion, especially since the heroine here is not only a woman whose heart always responds to the weak and helpless, but also a woman who can show independence and click a man on the nose: “And you wait!”
To go up to him first, cuddle up to him, and then go in search of a cat — this is what the wife of a Decembrist would have done, this is what a graduate of the Smolny Institute would have done, this is just what a reasonable loving woman would have done — and it was both beautiful and feminine.
But today’s elections, dictated by modern women’s culture, are different.
I am against modern women’s culture. I am for femininity!
And you?
Video from Yana Shchastya: interview with professor of psychology N.I. Kozlov
Topics of conversation: What kind of woman do you need to be in order to successfully marry? How many times do men get married? Why are there so few normal men? Childfree. Parenting. What is love? A story that couldn’t be better. Paying for the opportunity to be close to a beautiful woman.