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Scrolling endlessly through profiles on dating apps, trying to read other people’s hints and secret messages, dates that follow one after another that never lead to “something more” … Maybe you should take a break?
1. You will be less nervous
Agree, dates are tiring – especially when you are trying to appear in all your glory to impress the person opposite.
But if you stop constantly thinking about the end result, whether it’s a big wedding, or kids, or a shared mortgage, or just a long-term partner with whom you can wallow in front of the TV in the evenings and occasionally have sex, you can enjoy what you have right now. .
2. You remember yourself
And, maybe, finally you will become the “best version of yourself”, but not for someone else, but for the sake of your own growth and development.
People are drawn to those who enjoy life, so it’s likely that those around you will be drawn to you, even if you don’t make any effort to do so. Such is the paradox.
3. You will stop showing that you need others.
In society, people who actively demonstrate the status of “in search” are often treated with prejudice: for example, it is believed that such a woman “hung herself on everyone.”
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But as soon as you stop showing that you need others, they, others, will begin to show interest in you.
4. You will start to see opportunities.
It’s time to put aside the list of qualities that an ideal partner should have – perhaps it is this clear idea that prevents you from meeting someone with whom you will truly feel good.
5.You will see the difference
Agree, in dire need of a relationship, we often take for interest what has nothing to do with it. Recognizing the differences is not always easy, and it is definitely worth approaching this process with a clear head. In addition, it is less likely that you will start to force things and thereby scare off potential candidates.
6. You realize that love is not only a romantic relationship.
It happens that we, having read advice to take a closer look at the environment, try to turn friendship into “something more” and as a result we simply lose a friend. Perhaps it’s time to start appreciating friendly love for what it is.
7. You will understand that being alone is okay.
Yes, being alone is just as normal as being in a relationship. Most of us are alternately in one or another status, and we must learn to enjoy them equally.
Of course, loving loneliness is not easy, but this is perhaps the only way to know yourself and learn to love your life, regardless of whether there is someone next to you with whom you can share it or not.