Do you want to fix someone else? But who knows how he should live? Who knows what exactly it should be? There are areas of life in which giving advice is unacceptable.
We can be there and support a person in a moment of loneliness, but it is not in our power to correct him, says psychologist Olga Krasnikova. He must find his own way. Often, suffering from loneliness pushes us to change something in ourselves, in life.
Feelings, desires and needs, thoughts, actions and attitudes lie in the zone of personal responsibility, and no one, even driven by the best of intentions, has the right to interfere. To deprive a person of responsibility is a disservice. Thinking, feeling, wishing, doing everything for another, you can interfere with the development of his personality.
Advice can only be useful if the adviser shares his experience. Then his sincere words are an open dialogue, an exchange of information. It involves two equals, two personalities.