One of the most eloquent forms of non-verbal communication is hugging. Take a closer look at how people hug, and you will understand what kind of relationship they are in and what they want to say to each other.
Meaning of hugs
Many underestimate their deep meaning and even mistake them for excessive familiarity. Meanwhile, this is a historically significant part of social interaction: it’s not for nothing that we see people everywhere, wrapping their arms around each other, and it seems that this has always been the case. This ancient form of physical intimacy has been documented in rock paintings, we have come across images of it more than once, admiring ancient sculptures and ancient paintings.
Behavioral psychologists consider hugging an important form of non-verbal communication that helps create personal and social bonds. It is not in vain that people continue to hug, because trusting relationships make you healthier and happier.
Their types
Much depends on the country, gender and age, on whether we want to show joy or participation, express sympathy or friendly disposition. Hugs are often accompanied by kisses. For example, in Italy, when meeting, it is customary to hug and kiss on the cheek not only old friends, but also new acquaintances.
There are many types of hugs: each expresses feelings in its own way, depending on the temperament and the specifics of interpersonal relationships. From the way someone hugs, you can only draw superficial conclusions. The main indicators that you should pay attention to are the duration of the touch and the force with which the person presses the other to himself.
Some people don’t like to be hugged and don’t like hugging others.
For most, such close bodily contact is acceptable only with loved ones, very close friends and relatives. According to some psychologists, hugs (whether strong or weak) with a pat on the back mean that the one who pats is uncomfortable and wants to move away as soon as possible.
This custom is not at all considered a privilege of two. Group hugs are especially common in sports, and in general it is more of a ritual of togetherness that reinforces in the subconscious a sense of cohesion that is unattainable with verbal interaction.
Alternatives to hugs
Some people don’t like to be hugged and don’t feel like hugging others. Some people try to touch others as little as possible for specific reasons: psychological rejection of intimacy, a closed character, or someone’s unpleasant smell.
There are many ways to replace hugs that are used in different cultures and social circles. Perhaps the most common greeting gesture is the handshake. A short and firm handshake is much less intimate, but it also implies physical contact and is translated from body language as a readiness for an open dialogue.
Another popular form of approval and recognition is the famous high-five gesture, which is usually accompanied by a smile or laugh. To exchange energetic claps on an open palm is the same manifestation of goodwill and mutual sympathy as hugs.
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