It is believed that a man who has reached the age of 30 is in the prime of his life. At this age, his values and views of the world are changing. Let’s see what exactly young people need in a romantic relationship at this time.
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Throughout life, a person, regardless of gender, goes through several crises. One of the most important – at the age of 17 years. It is characterized by separation from parents, the formulation of life priorities, the search for oneself and one’s place in life.
Approximately the same processes occur again in 30 years. A man at this age begins to analyze his values and goals. It is during this period that early marriages often break up, concluded under pressure from parents or without realizing the true value of the marriage union.
Also characteristic of this life stage is a change of job or a more active career advancement. A man in his 30s is aware of the difference between the “I-real” and “I-imaginary” and actively seeks to move from the first to the second.
This means that men want something more serious from relationships.
And here you can ask yourself: why does he need a family, if 30 years is the best time to achieve success at work? This is true, but after all, a man begins to relate to relationships differently.
The girl is no longer just a capricious person who does not understand why attention should be paid. Now a man himself understands the value of relationships, can talk about them and, most importantly, tries to strengthen them. And what exactly is important for a man of this age in a relationship?
First, reliability. Men, in principle, are less likely to forgive frivolity than women. Among women, 70% of those who know about cheating and put up with it, while the percentage of men who are ready to forgive cheating is only 501.
In addition, men of mature age are not ready to endure emotional swings. They can worry about anything, but in the love of their woman they want to be 100% sure.
Secondly, the home. Men aged 30 are more clearly aware of the need for home comfort and care of a partner. No, this does not mean that a woman is obliged to stand at the stove from morning to night. But an adult man will appreciate the ability to create a warm atmosphere, surround with attention and affection.
Third, creating a family. Men after 25 are ready to admit that they have “worked up” and are waiting for a more serious relationship. What to say about a man 30 years old? Of course, it is not necessary to get married after a month of relationship and immediately give birth to children. But you need to understand that relationships with an adult man lead exactly to this.
We figured out that a 30-year-old man defines new life goals for himself and actively strives to achieve them. This means that he expects a commonality of these goals from a woman.
At this age, a young man no longer chooses a girl, focusing only on external data. Now it is much more important that a woman be balanced, interesting and successful in her field.
What can be said about the sex life of a 30-year-old man? As soon as we reach a certain length of service in any activity, interest in it begins to fade. It’s the same with sex.
The sexual experience of a man is now so great that he expects a little more from sex. No, this does not mean that a man’s desire disappears at the age of 30. It’s just that reaching a peak during intercourse is no longer an end in itself, the main thing is emotional intimacy.
An adult man is able to devote more time to his partner than to himself, since he puts in the first place not the quantity of sex, but its quality.
However, men also have a desire to try something new.
Various kinds of experiments in bed, sexual toys, non-standard locations – all this is more likely to be of interest to an adult man.
Interestingly, according to statistics, most of the men who cheat on their women are over 40 years old.2.Accordingly, if you can hear your 30-year-old partner and find harmony in your sex life, it is likely that the man will remain faithful to you.
It is noteworthy that women respond positively about relationships with 30-40-year-old men. On women’s forums you can often find such opinions:
- “The ideal man! I have never been treated better!”
- “Adult, walking up, accomplished and knowing what he wants. Much more interesting and wiser than the younger ones. Well, about the fact that, unlike a 20-year-old teenager, he already understands something and knows how to love, and it’s not worth talking about.
- “A man starts somewhere around 30-35 years old, and before that – a boy”
A woman is more likely to be satisfied with a relationship with him, even if she is a few years younger. This happens because most girls are ready for a serious relationship and even to start a family from the age of 20, while a man needs a few more years to get on his feet.
Now that we have understood that at the age of 30 a man wants a serious relationship, stability, mutual respect and comfort, we need to decide: is such a relationship suitable for you personally?
1 https://riafan.ru/1320569-seksopatolog-rasskazal-kakoi-procent-muzhchin-i-zhenshin-proshaet-izmeny
2 https://brakoved.ru/razvod/psychology/statistika-izmen-mujchin-i-jenshchin.html