wedding vow

A letter came: “Hello, Nikolai Ivanovich. I want to share an interesting and pleasant thing. My husband, inspired by your family contract, created a variation of it in the form of a wedding vow. There it was read to the guests under the signature and handed to me to control the execution in the future. Have a look, maybe some of the visitors of the site will also find it useful.

I, Konstantin Kostyukevich, in front of the audience I swear not only to love Sabina Victoria, but to build a quality family with her. Thus, I undertake the following obligations:

Actively create and maintain a warm, sincere atmosphere in the family:

• be affectionate «Sunshine» whenever it is appropriate
• behave calmly and relaxed, including in difficult situations, do not scold yourself when you fail
• formulate any requests gently and restrainedly

Regularly pay attention to your beloved wife:

• every day — at least half an hour for a joint discussion of the day, evening walks, dreams together.
• at least once a month — attend some interesting events together, arrange romantic surprises, give flowers and gifts

Monitor your health, do not grow fat in front of the TV or computer:

• no alcohol, tobacco or other drugs
• exercise every morning
• exercise at least once a week
• provide high-quality and rich sex (we will modestly keep silent about the frequency)
• keep a good level of internal energy, do not “turn sour”, be internally vigorous

Become successful in life:

• provide the family with a decent standard of living: the benchmark is 100 USD per month (in current money)
• have specific goals for life and every day move towards their achievement
• develop yourself and help your beloved grow — attend trainings, read books, set goals and achieve them

Be the head of the family:

• key decisions and complex issues are on me, responsibility for them is also on me
• I am the boss in the house — the knives are sharpened, the equipment works, the wallpaper does not lag behind, the burnt out light bulbs have already been replaced.

In the future, to become a quality father to your children:

• spend time with children, communicate with them every day
• be an example of a male model of behavior — strict and demanding of yourself and others
• keep learning how to raise smart kids

The term for execution is 2 years.

The validity of the oath is indefinite. The text can be revised and specified at the mutual desire of the parties.

Witnesses:

We, the undersigned, testify that this oath was indeed given in our presence by Sabinina Victoria Kostyukevich Konstantin and thus is subject to mandatory execution: