Hello my dear!
I love you very much and I am glad that we are together for life. I am very lucky as a woman, because you are my closest, attentive, caring, economic and faithful person. Why am I texting you instead of talking to you directly? It’s so much easier for me. Here I can clearly and clearly state my thoughts without emotions, so that you understand what I want. And it will be easier for you to read in a calm state. You know my emotional nature. In an oral conversation, I can talk too much, a bunch of all sorts of nasty things, but forget about the main thing, distort or leave out what I originally wanted. Negative emotions can come out on their own, because I still don’t control them well enough, but you know, I’m seriously working on it. That is why I chose this form of addressing you, where, without emotions, clearly, I will state my desires, requests, visions and just once again confess my love to you.
I understand you very much that you have a big burden in the form of responsibility for all of us. After all, you are our only breadwinner and protector in the family. To this, additional troubles are added to you, in the form of deceiving bosses who do not want to pay normally for your work. This complicates our current situation. Yes, and here I periodically “file” my dissatisfaction. I am aware of my mistake, which is why I want to calmly convey my thoughts and ideas to you, without negativity and pressure.
I understand you very much and worry about you in this situation, even more than you think, and these are not beautiful words. And in no way am I blaming you for the current situation, as it may seem to you in our constant conversations. I’m always by your side, no matter what happens. You’re doing fine! I really love you too.
I also understand that you need proper rest and, above all, sleep. After all, I do not expect another husband, so your health and mood are important to me. On the other hand, if all the time we both start to just relax (at the TV, sleep until dinner, etc.), then things will constantly accumulate and turn into a huge snowball that will cover us sooner or later. Nobody will do anything for us. It is very easy to get bogged down in a swamp of laziness, dirt and inaction, it is addictive, and it is extremely difficult to get out. But we are still very young, active, full of strength and some desires. As long as there is time and opportunity, we must use it. Moreover, our family will soon increase and with it new worries will appear.
That’s why I’m worried. I am constantly pushing you. I spoil the mood for both, and time is running out, nothing happens, but sooner or later you will have to do it, we know that. I’m nervous about this and I’m tired of being nervous, because this will not help the cause, but only spoil everyone’s mood. You know it’s bad for pregnant women. In general, it’s harmful for me to wind up, I plunge into the negative and it’s difficult for me to get out of there. I spend energy and strength in the wrong direction, and now I don’t have so much of them. Therefore, I beg you to listen to my requests.
The first request: you get up in the morning no later than 10.00, and lift yourself up. I won’t wake you up anymore, you are an adult and responsible man, if you decide to do this, you will do it easily.
The second request: make repairs in the corridor. Now there is a unique opportunity for this: while I am still able to help you, there is no stomach yet, I can move and work freely. And then it will be hard for me, and we are not up to repairs: spring is coming, I will want to get out into nature, fishing, plus help my mother in the country. We don’t have enough time for everything! We’ll have to do the accumulated cases in an emergency mode. There is money for this repair, 10-15 thousand is enough for us, especially since your mother gives us wallpaper, cement and other materials, thanks to her. So now the main task is just to start doing. Moreover, you have golden hands, you just need to attach a desire here.
Therefore, please, on Saturday, March 2, at 11 o’clock, the deadline is 11.30, we will meet in the hallway with all the necessary tools. If you don’t wake up on time, I will now do everything myself, at least in this way I will move my dreams forward. If you want to get up early and have breakfast, I will do anything, breakfast will be delicious. When we meet in the hallway, I will kiss and hug you. By this time, I will have peeled off the wallpaper, I can even start breaking the closet, having previously taken out all the clothes from there.
You know that I’m not doing this for myself, but for our common family future. I love you. I want to live with you all my life, because you are the best dad and husband in the world. Will you help?