We just share our feelings

Girlfriends have not seen each other for a long time, they are very glad to each other, share their joys and sorrows.

— You know, every morning I don’t know what to do: on the one hand, I need to quickly put on porridge to feed my husband, on the other hand, I need to do exercises. And it just doesn’t add up. So what is time management? — with a little sadness in her voice, the woman shared her situation with her friend.

A friend sighed: “Yes, and in the morning I have four different things that I need to do at the same time, and my husband only pushes me!”

Question: what do you think about this snippet of their communication? To create intrigue, I will say that I would be categorically against such communication in our family. Why? Because these are complaints, not a conversation on the case.

If something does not suit you, formulate it as a task:

“Listen, I have a small question, what if you tell me — I need to quickly put porridge in the morning to feed my husband, and on the other hand, I need to do exercises. And it just doesn’t work out for me. Do you have similar situations? How do you solve them? — and then both think.

If they don’t think of it, then let them come up to their husbands (they are smart and loving) and ask what they advise. And that’s it: the issue will be resolved.