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🙂 Hello everyone! Friends, do not be surprised, but in the modern world there are virgin men. They are born virgins, and they become virgins, says popular wisdom, hinting at the voluminous collection of problems of men who did not know the pleasures of love in time.
Male virginity
Let’s talk about this delicate topic. The late innocence of men becomes a real tragedy for the inhabitants of large cities.
Don’t put it off until tomorrow
It would seem, what’s the difference at what age to get the first sexual experience? However, for both men and women, the problem of protracted “virginity” is aggravated with age.
From the point of view of physiology, the optimal age for deprivation of virginity in both sexes is considered to be 17-20 years. After that, in women, the hymen rapidly loses its elasticity, and the defloration process can be very painful and even require surgical intervention.
As for men, the level of sex hormones, which at the optimal age simply push a young man towards girls, begins to decline after 25-27. The craving for intimacy decreases, the opposite sex seems less attractive. And then the finale is not far off: the man himself does not need sex.
We will not talk about those 20-23-year-olds who for some reason are bypassed by girls: just until you managed to interest them. Girls tend to be interested in more respectable men than boys. If an already established man under 30 is still a virgin, this is suggestive.
Late virginity: reasons
The list of reasons due to which an adult man did not have sexual intercourse is quite large. Where do virgin men come from?
The virgin comes from childhood
Most likely, the parents, under whose influence the basis for relationships with women is formed, told him from an early age that a woman is the most vicious creature in the world, and having sex with her is horror as bad.
The young man begins to be frightened by the unknown associated with the fair sex. Subconsciously, he tries to avoid any contact with girls, and later becomes overgrown with complexes.
The virgin is the victim
Perhaps as a child, he became a victim of violence or an unwitting witness to rough intercourse. Therefore, the boy developed a strong dislike for this kind of relationship. The consequences cannot be avoided if an incest situation took place in the family, regardless of whether the boy was a direct participant or simply knew about it.
Henpecked
He grew up under the wing of his mother – a general in a skirt, who raised his son “for herself” – for help and support in his old age. And now it is difficult for him to start sex life due to the lack of masculinity, determination, excessive softness.
The virgin is romantic
He dreams of meeting the one whose name is still unknown. In search of his ideal, a guy runs the risk of missing a wonderful girl, since her appearance or behavior may not coincide with the image of his fantasies and requirements, which are often overstated.
Complexing virgin
He is a victim of social stereotypes. Eternal complexes of lack of centimeters below the waist, often unreasonable, often cause serious troubles in other parts of the body. Also, physical disabilities (for example, a rash on the skin) are the reason for the internal prohibition on sexual relations.
All beginners have some complexes: “Oh, what if I can’t?” Previously, this problem was solved simply and cynically: boys from wealthy families were taken to “gay girls” to study. The method, of course, is dubious. Another option: “She may not like me, she will reject me, and then I will never be with anyone at all …”
Shy man
The main advice to everyone who is impatient to part with the annoying innocence is to believe in yourself! You are an attractive young man, and you will certainly be successful. Self-confidence is felt from a distance!
Say yes to your life
If the lack of sex is associated with trauma, do not try to forget the sad events. It won’t work anyway. In order to heal the trauma, it is necessary to admit that it took place in life, to accept it and “put it on the shelf” in consciousness.
Practice acquaintance
If your intimate problems are related to the inability to meet and communicate with women, arrange rehearsals before communication. The day before the party or date, ask a womanizer friend to come up with a detailed scenario for the meeting. Tips: how to meet a girl.
Think together how to react to possible plot twists and what to say. For the same purpose, you can visit a psychologist who will help you develop your own style of behavior.
What do men themselves think about this?
Andrey, 22 of the year:
– It’s easy for you to say: lose your virginity! And try to get normally excited when your beloved girl, after the first failure, begins each new attempt with the words: “Well, today, as usual?”
Sergey, 24 years old:
– I, actually, am sure that the main thing in life is brains. Therefore, I entered the Faculty of Mechanics and Mathematics. But a couple of years ago, irrepressible friends introduced me to a girl. And she managed to get me into bed! Now I have two hobbies – sex and mathematics.
Michael, 25 years:
– Sex ?! Don’t you know that there are over a million HIV-infected people in Russia alone now ?! No, there will be only one woman in my life – my wife! A virgin, of course.
Famous virgins
- Nikolay Gogol;
- Isaac Newton;
- Immanuel Kant;
- Lewis Carroll;
- Leonardo da Vinci;
- Hans Christian Andersen;
- Nikola Tesla;
- Henry Morton Stanley;
- Gary Coleman;
- Anatoly Wasserman.
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