Victim Dictionary

​​​​​​​Many people habitually fall into the position of the Victim only because they are used to common phrases and phrases that trigger the sacrificial style of thinking and experiencing. Language largely shapes our worldview, and by clearing the language, we help our thinking. What phrases, words and phrases trigger the state and position of the Victim?

I must say that there are many hundreds of such words and phrases, we will give only a few, for example. It is clear that much is determined by intonation and context, however, it is worth paying attention to:

Because of …. I can’t help it! I can’t work in this environment! It’s horrible. Nightmare! I’m always unlucky. Why does this only happen to me? Still nothing will work. It’s stronger than me. Well, I can’t! I can’t, I have such a character. How could she do this?! No, you look! He/she climbs out of turn! You can’t change people! You need to come to terms with this … I have been used all my life. I didn’t do anything to her, but she… I’m tired of all this. I never liked it. No matter what I do, everything is bad for him … She is to blame for everything. I never have a free moment for myself. Probably, I am a bad mother … Nobody understands me … see further below the article.