PSYchology

Agreements are soft, medium and hard.

  • Soft ones are guidelines, we observe them as far as possible and there are no penalties for violating them.

A soft agreement is only a guideline, and we both agree that we are guided by this period, but if it is later, then it’s not scary. And then some sloppiness is allowed.

  • Medium — agreements on important things, must be observed, for violation of staff sanctions.
  • Tough things are absolutely obligatory, violation of them is impossible and punishable to the maximum, that is, until a complete break in relations.

If, however, it is clearly agreed that the agreement is tough (it is important here that both accepted it, both are ready for this in advance), then this is how to catch the plane: the flight takes place without options, those who did not have time are loaded onto the plane in slippers, as they are and with what has been gathered…

In accordance with the Family Constitution, pressure and sanctions depend on which agreements — soft, medium or hard — have been violated.

Leave a Reply