Tree and man or all people are like trees

😉 Hello everyone! Friends, in this article “A tree and a man or all people are like trees” there is an opportunity to look at many things in life in a different way.

Man and tree

“Trees are like people, and they also love the company of their own kind. Loneliness is preferred by only a few ”Jens Jensen

People are really like plants. I would like to be a sequoia and live on Earth for six thousand years. Interestingly, even the most majestic tree on the planet, once upon a time, made its way with a tiny fluffy shoot – as touching as a helpless human baby.

And then it stretched towards the sky with thin twigs, looking for food, warmth, drops of rain. So it is with people: the child is slowly gaining strength, “takes root” and grows near other creatures similar to itself.

Spouses

What, then, is marriage, if not the transplantation of two plants on one small edge? Since in all subsequent years you will have to be near, only we, people, are such trees that can choose exactly how to grow further.

For example, they are closely intertwined with trunks and strangle each other with their closeness, in which it is difficult for both of them to even move the branches.

Or, as they often say, “look for support”, bend over and lean with the whole crown on your partner, who will have to hold on to two and quiet sunny days, and in the black windbreaks of life’s upheavals.

And not just to be a support, but sometimes to hear constant complaints, because “spousal support”, which turns into a parasitic-sacrificial tandem, for some reason is taken for granted.

And neither of these two can even imagine that everything could be different. Forgetting about the opportunity to choose the edge where you can develop further, out of despair and helplessness, a person will wither away. Even if he is a mighty sequoia, which would still live and live.

Sometimes, on the contrary, we forget that we are a little trees. We are trying to poison someone’s air and soil, restrict the freedom of their growth, cut down the root. But then at the same time we destroy ourselves. After all, our area is common, and someone’s fall can be a blow to the attacker himself.

Free space

What, then, do those plants look like that have enough space. They do not intertwine in a suffocating dance, do not lean over each other. Keeping a distance of mutual perception and respect, they stretch straight up and grow freely side by side.

Isn’t that the symbol of adequate marriage and society as a whole? Communities where everyone has enough freedom and strength for full development, and does not impede the growth of others?

Everyone can become such a tree. Find integrity, support, source, inspiration, lightness and flexibility in yourself. Hold on to your root and reach up. Resist the turmoil on your own, recover, heal and flourish again. Enjoy the world around – the sky, birds, rivers and, of course, other trees.

It might not be right. But psychologists advise against looking for support. Or be it for someone, hide in the shadow or cast it on others. Because there should be enough space in this world for every tree, for every person.

If they want it. If they find in themselves sincerity and courage to independently fill their zone of space with light, love and wisdom. And then you can successfully grow side by side. Ultimately, then loneliness will simply not remain. A life filled from within will never be empty on the outside.

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