This is another way to turn a child’s perception of tragedy into comedy. It is perfect for two small (or not very small) tattletales who want to present what is happening in a favorable light for them and involve their parents in the proceedings.
This time, agree not to listen to them, but to watch. Let the children know that you are bored with constant quarrels and if they want to tell you about them again, then they will have to put on a performance (or ballet) on this topic. Let them send you tickets to the front row! You can really ask them to make an invitation for you by coming up with a name for the performance. This will switch their attention to a more peaceful wave. If the children’s rage towards each other is not too great, you can require them to jointly produce an invitation card.
When you receive an invitation, sit back and watch a ballet or film without words. Children must reproduce on the home «stage» the course of events that led to the conflict. They can move, gesticulate in every possible way and depict horror, anger or, on the contrary, suffering and defenselessness on their faces, but they cannot utter any sounds at the same time. Such a silent story, of course, will be very unusual for children. Therefore, their attention will focus on the intricacies of acting and how to convey the “true truth” to you. At the same time, involuntary observation of such antics and grimaces by another child will inevitably make them smile. So during the performance, the emotions of the guys will certainly change.
If the young actors stop “at the most interesting place” (that is, they show only the quarrel itself), then portray an indignant spectator who gave money not for half the performance, but for the whole one and therefore demands a happy ending. They didn’t think of that? So let them think! If they need time, then let them announce an intermission, while you have a snack at the buffet. And if they are extra-class actors, then let them improvise and come up with a solution to the conflict right away, on stage. If the children really succeed in solving the problem with “methods of art”, then shout “Bravo!”, applaud and take autographs from such stage masters! Do not skimp on the enthusiasm about their independent search for a solution. In gratitude for the pleasantly spent leisure time, invite them to participate in some interesting business with you. This can end the truce.
Note. Of course, there may be cases when children are not able to come up with a peaceful ending to the play. Then you can offer them the help of a screenwriter (that is, again yours) and hide behind the scenes along with young talents. When your idea is accepted, return to the «auditorium» again and take your place of honor.