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Things in the house that prevent dreams from coming true
Getting rid of these items is not always easy. After all, they take root straight into the soul.
Oh, if everything was so simple – he threw out something unnecessary, and immediately dreams began to ripple, the mortgage was paid off, the fat on the sides and thighs went to the enemy … No, that, unfortunately, does not happen. But spring decluttering is really necessary, it gives us a chance to get rid of things that prevent us from getting what we want. What is worth parting with in order to make room for a dream – an expert in the matter of decluttering told Wday.ru about this.
Decluttering is getting rid of unnecessary things. It is impossible to put things in order in the house, organize the space, if there is an overabundance of items and clothes. Clutter takes away energy, albeit gradually, not always noticeably. You come home tired and even more tired of the fact that everything is lying around, that everything is forced, it is difficult to find something you need.
By the way, cleaning also takes longer. While you move all the figurines and change on the dresser, you don’t want to dust off. While you collect toys from the floor and something else, you already have no strength to wash it. And parsing clothes in the closet is, in general, a special kind of torture for many.
Superfluous things are those that are not used now, but may have been used in the past. “Past” is the key word here. Saving what is not needed, does not bring joy, does not help to live, we lose energy and get stuck in yesterday. Here’s what you need to get rid of in the first place in order to move forward.
Unlucky gift
Aunt Masha gave you a nightmare vase for your wedding. It seems inconvenient to get rid of, but you will definitely not use it either. And there is a vase in the far corner of the cabinet, it takes a place and spoils the mood with all its appearance. Here it is important to understand that a gift is just a thing, and its value is only in those emotions that were during the gift. Then you have the right to dispose of it as you like, and there is no need to feel guilty. Sell or give to someone who likes the thing and will be useful.
Clothes that have lost their relevance
Yes, this costume looked stunning on you and was worth a lot of money. But now it doesn’t fit and upsets you every time you bump into it in the closet. Just accept yourself and the fact that everyone is changing. And a suit that hangs around is out of fashion and costs absolutely nothing. Free yourself from an unnecessary source of stress, there are already enough of them everywhere.
Things-memories
Here it is always more difficult and painful. Wedding dress, school diaries, grandma’s set. Of course, you can keep all this and enjoy, getting it out sometimes. But if old things are already taking up too much space and cluttering your home, consider doing a sweep. After all, good memories are stored in our hearts and in photographs, not in objects.
By the way
There is another problem when people accumulate a lot of things and still use everything. This means that a person does not have the ability to separate the important from the mediocre, the ability to make decisions. Moreover, it applies to all spheres of life: I cannot throw away the extra blouses – I cannot decide where to go on vacation – I cannot refuse an annoying friend – I cannot ask about a promotion, although I have long outgrown my position.
After decluttering, as a result, they often talk not about evenly laid out clothes, but about wonderful changes in personal life and professional achievements. But these are not miracles at all! Keeping mountains of unnecessary things, you remain in the past and do not let the future into your life, close the path of renewal energy. After getting rid of unnecessary things, people better understand themselves, their true needs, respectively, are better realized in life.