A cat came to the man’s house. She came to the man and stayed with him, because here she was warm and comfortable. She was beautiful and did not hide her beauty, you could stroke her, and then she purred. When the man just sat, she rubbed against his legs with pleasure. It was hardly like she was stroking him, to a greater extent she received strokes for herself. But this suited the man, and he left the kitty. And then … Then the kitty got used to it: she began to meow loudly when there was no milk in the bowl, she was no longer a guest on the bed, but the hostess, and when she was driven away, she resentfully let out her claws and scratched. And it was no longer possible to understand whether this was a joke or seriously.
However, a cat can CLIMB onto the bed carefully, but LIES always — the hostess. This cat didn’t even climb up anymore — she jumped into the bed like a mistress.
And today a man kicks out a kitty. He tells her, «Get out of bed!» — but the kitty only stretched. The man got up and slapped her — the kitty lazily jumped off the bed and left the room offended. And then she returned, looking at him reproachfully. The man read his newspaper and stubbornly did not look at the kitty, but she came up and again began to rub against his leg. He told her angrily: «Go away, you’re tired!», Kitty thought and went to her kitchen, to her sour cream.
The next evening, the kitty sat on his lap again.
…Kisa will not leave him anywhere, because she is wise. She will be with him because she needs him, and also because she knows that she is — such — a man needs. Today he needs to expel someone, and he, except for her, has no one for this. He will drive her away, but she will definitely return, because:
Every woman is a cat. She always walks by herself and always chooses her owners, who will let her in and give her the fattest sour cream.
This man kept his door open, and a woman began to come to him. She came to the man, because here she was warm and comfortable. She was beautiful and did not hide her beauty, you could stroke her, and then she purred. She didn’t care if she was needed here: she knew she wanted to be here. And she knew that whoever didn’t want her was a fool. Well, fool. The man was not a fool and wanted her. Some time. And then … Then the woman got used to it: she began to express dissatisfaction when a man paid her less attention than she would like, she walked around the house no longer as a guest, but as a hostess, and when she was made to understand that she was not invited to this position at all, she was offended pouted, «You don’t respect me as a person!» And it was no longer possible to understand whether this was a joke or seriously.
And today a man says bad words to a woman. He tells her: “I don’t need you!”, He tells her: “Go away!”, And she strokes his hand and looks at him warmly and caringly.
She won’t leave. A man will get angry, say harsh words to her, prove that they should part, but she will not leave. He will insult her, she will respond with tears in the same way and more painfully, they will begin to say terrible things to each other — but they will be together for a long time. She won’t leave. Or, having left, he will definitely return.
A woman will not leave him anywhere, because she is a woman. She will be with him because she needs him, and also because she knows that she is — such — a man needs. She knows that in his heart a man is happy with this evening entertainment, this game of driving away. It looked like he needed to fight today, and she was happily there. And now he finds out if he can drive her away from him, she proves to him that this will not work for him. They do not want to disperse at all, they simply measure their strength.
She sees how menacingly he pouts, how much he puts his soul into a conversation with her. And if she leaves — with whom will he quarrel so mentally? Yes, he is just afraid that she will leave. Now he is burdened by a relationship with her, but if she leaves, he will be burdened by the lack of a relationship. And the woman knows it. They quarrel with her — it means that she is needed.
THEY FIGHT WITH YOU — THEN YOU ARE NEEDED
The woman will leave when the man stops quarreling with her. When the conversations stop, when he no longer needs to prove anything to her, and when her words, even the most offensive ones, will fly past him into the void — as if from a stranger. Whether he leaves or she leaves — it doesn’t matter anymore, they will part. They will part because the Games are over and the main thing has been decided: «We are parting.» Accepted by reason. And decided — with the heart.
And what to do with it? We will not give tips to women, because wise cats are good without our recommendations. Recommendations are needed by those who sort things out with cats, worry about their tears and try to negotiate with them … In science, this is called codependency and can last for years. In fact, everything is solved simply, but only for those who are not led to tears, are really not afraid to leave (ready to leave), know how to negotiate and follow the format.