There will be no relationship: what men do not like in women

Doesn’t he call back or answer messages? Perhaps something scared him away. What could it be?

1. The past is holding you back.

Everyone has to face challenges from time to time. Imagine that these are suitcases that we acquire as we move along the path of life. Some, continuing the journey, check them in as luggage, others prefer to drag and talk about the contents. Men who are determined to search for relationships try to avoid fellow travelers who complain about their fate. Men will help carry the burden, but only on condition that you yourself radiate lightness.

2. You are not physically attracted to him.

At the beginning of a relationship, men are driven by physical attraction. Feeling that they are not attracted enough to a woman, they may try to satisfy sexual curiosity, but will not continue the relationship.

3. You don’t keep the right distance

Men need a woman to show interest in them. However, they experience discomfort if it encroaches on their entire living space. This reveals a lack of self-confidence and distrust of the chosen one. He paints a picture of a future relationship in which he will have to live without the right to hobbies, hobbies, meeting friends, and this scares him.

4. You seem materialistic to him

We don’t like being treated like a walking wallet. Maybe some agree to a deal: material goods in exchange for female favor. However, if a man is looking for a relationship, in most cases he sees this as manipulation.

Traits that men like

1. Calmness

Balance is important to us: romance should not distract from important deeds and achievements. We perceive a woman as an assistant on the way to victories, attempts to turn relationships into an endless drama with stormy feelings, conversations, tears seem to be an annoying obstacle on the way forward.

2. Self-confidence

A man is comfortable with someone who knows her own worth and does not feel the need for constant confirmation that she is loved and appreciated. Insecure women are afraid of losing relationships, which means they monitor all actions and are jealous with or without reason.

3. Independence

Many are not afraid of responsibility, but do not want to be the person on whom well-being depends. The autonomy of a woman and the ability to rely on herself is much more attractive than trying to make a partner the center of life, provided that this is not a ostentatious demonstration.

We love to feel that you have chosen us.

We are hunters and conquerors. We are jealous of everyone who comes too close to the borders, which means they encroach on a woman in whom we are interested. If we notice that the lady of the heart herself willingly begins to flirt, then we understand: the borders will always be in danger, we will have to keep all-round defense. At the same time, we understand that women need confirmation of their importance in the eyes of other men.

Perhaps you will have a question: does a man never show interest in a woman who does not fit into this framework? Everything is not so simple: if a new acquaintance, despite the warning “red flags”, still excites our imagination, we can treat communication with her as an adventure or even step over interests and obvious discomfort and move on. But only a few dare to do so.

I don’t want you to be upset when you discover the traits described in yourself. But perhaps it will help to express yourself differently on a date. If you decide to go further and change something in yourself, great. Change, but not for men, but for yourself. The interest that they will show will be a nice bonus.