For people who tend to worry, a breakup is a rich, beloved tale, accompanied by deep feelings, usually of a negative nature. People usually begin to feel sadness, guilt, gratitude, love, and other vivid emotions. The one from whom they leave begins to be called «outcast», which in the existing cultural tradition is considered a big blow to the pride and self-esteem of a person. «Parting» is a popular theme in art and literature.
Parting is what is understood and called by people as parting. There are no physical circumstances that determine “there is a separation” or not. If a loved one went on a business trip for a month, a year or more, but writes and loves, there is no parting, people have not parted. If the lover said: “That’s it, we are breaking up!”, But at the same time he is also a work colleague, according to the fairy tale, there is a separation, although contacts continue.
The tale of parting is a stabilizer, conservation of existing relationships. The experience of parting instills in people the value of existing pair relationships and prevents the formation of new relationships. Those who are close to this fairy tale are wondering about the “reasons for parting” and “is it possible to avoid parting?”, meaning that parting is something negative. The tale of parting is a way of manipulating those who are planning a new relationship. The topic of «breakup» usually creates feelings of guilt and prevents the end of the previous relationship.
Those who are not close to this sad tale of parting do not talk about parting. They do not part, they go further along the road of life, creating new acquaintances and new relationships. With a positive outlook on life, the end of one relationship is the opening of opportunities for creating new relationships.
People who, in principle, are not inclined to experiences and fairy tales, in principle use a different terminology: create promising contacts and relationships, close unpromising contacts and relationships. Parting as a stage in relationships, like a fairy tale, is the final separation of loved ones on the initiative of one or both parties.
Video from Yana Shchastya: interview with professor of psychology N.I. Kozlov
Topics of conversation: What kind of woman do you need to be in order to successfully marry? How many times do men get married? Why are there so few normal men? Childfree. Parenting. What is love? A story that couldn’t be better. Paying for the opportunity to be close to a beautiful woman.